Learn, Before you Do
1. What counts as losing your virginity?
This is a question that is hard to answer because different people have many different opinions on this; some people even say that there are different types of virginity. Most people agree with the answer that if you have had penetrative sex, then you are not a virgin. Others agree that if you have experienced an orgasm than you are not a virgin.
2. Can oral sex be dangerous for a woman?
There is only a slight chance that a gas bubble in the bloodstream can happen, this is called embolism, and it is very, very rare. This could happen if the guy were to blow EXTREMELY hard into your vagina. But since oral sex is supposed to be gentle to create a pleasurable sensation, I wouldn’t worry.
3. If the girl doesn’t have an orgasm can she still get pregnant?
Yes, a female’s orgasm is not a necessary part of becoming pregnant and there is enough sperm in the pre-ejaculatory and ejaculatory fluid of males to cause a pregnancy.
4. Is it true that you can’t get pregnant if you have sex in water?
No, it’s not true. Water does not wash away sperm and is not a good birth control method.
5. Are two condoms better than one for protection from pregnancy or STDs?
No, two condoms offer LESS protection as the friction between them makes breakage more likely. The only thing that I would suggest using more than one of is VCF’s because it is a spermicidal film that is inserted into the vagina and dissolves to trap and kill sperm.
6. Can you pass on or become infected with STDs as a result of kissing?
No, you cannot pass on or become infected with an STD as a result of kissing. However, you could pass on cold sores (herpes simplex, HSV1) to your partner through kissing.
7. What are the STDs out there that I should be aware of?
Genital Herpes appear as one or more blisters on or around the genitals or rectum. Although the infection can stay in the body indefinitely, the number of outbreaks tends to decrease over a period of years. Genital Herpes occur in one out of four women and in men one out of five. Genital Herpes have been found to be released from sores or fever blisters on the mouth and lips. Oral to genital or genital to genital contact can spread the infection. Chlamydia is another sexually transmitted disease that is caused by bacteria. Most people that are infected with Chlamydia do not have any symptoms are not aware of their infections. Chlamydia can be easily treated and cured. Gonorrhea is another STD cause by a bacterium that can grow and multiply easily in warm, moist areas of the reproductive tract, as well as the mouth, throat, eyes, and anus.
Gonorrheal infections occur in 125 of 100,000 people. HIV is a retrovirus that causes AIDS, a condition in which the immune system begins to fail. HIV can be transferred by blood, semen, vaginal fluid, or breast milk. There is currently no cure for HIV or AIDS.
8. Which STDs are transmitted through oral sex?
Hepatitis A, B and C Herpes, especially if the sores are in the infectious stage, HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is fairly low risk in terms of transmission via oral sex, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, NSU (Non-specific urethritis), Chlamydia, Yeast infections such as thrush are fairly low risk in terms transmission via oral sex, and Genital Warts are all transmitted through unprotected oral sex.
9. Am I ready for sex?
Here are some questions you want to ask yourself before going all the way. Are you doing this because you want to or are you doing it because of peer pressure or maybe your partner is saying things like “everyone else is doing it” or “you would do it if you loved me”. These reasons are not reasons for you to have sex. You should do it because YOU want to. Not because your partner or friends want you to. Do I know enough about sex? Do you know how and why a woman can get pregnant? Do you know your partner well enough? You need to be able to trust them and be comfortable with them, and it will definitely be a lot better with someone that you love. Is it easy to talk to your partner about sex? Honesty is the best policy as well as being with someone that is easy to talk to about important things, such as sex. Do you know how to be safe? Do you know or have chosen your contraception? Consider these things before having sex.
10. Does masturbating several times a day cause infertility?
Masturbation has no known medical ill effects. Masturbation does not cause infertility.
11. Where is the G-spot and what is it?
The G-spot is an area located behind the front wall of the vagina, between the back of the pubic bone and the cervix. When stimulated, it can produce intensely pleasurable feelings for the woman, and may cause her to have an orgasm.
12. Where is the clitoris and what is it?
The clitoris is a small pea-sized object on the exterior of the vagina just above the vulva. It is very sensitive and when stimulated can lead to orgasm.
13. Is there a way of stopping premature ejaculation?
The best way that some men have found to stop premature ejaculation is to think about something dull to regain some control.
14. Is there a male contraceptive pill?
There are no male contraceptive pills to take at the moment however; some companies are trying to develop a pill for men.
15. Is there a time to have sexual intercourse when it is safe and the woman will not get pregnant?
There is no safe time to have unprotected sex if you wish to avoid pregnancy; even unprotected sex during a woman’s period can result in pregnancy.
16. What should you do if a condom breaks?
If a condom breaks while having sex and before ejaculation, stop and pull out and apply a new condom. However if ejaculation has occurred, shower or wash your genital areas with soap and water thoroughly. Never douche after a condom breaks this can force infectious bacteria deeper into the vagina. Go to a women’s hospital or gynecologist to get tested for pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Amongst anything, take a deep breath and stay calm.
17. Is anal sex safe?
Yes, however if you are not relaxed it can be extremely painful because the anus is not self lubricating or elastic and the muscles will clench on contact. But it is not safe against pregnancy or STDs.
18. How long does it take for birth control pills to work?
Birth controls vary. Depending on the type of pill you use and when you start the packet of pills all depends on when the pills become effective. Check with your healthcare provider to when the particular version of the pill will become effective against pregnancy.
19. Can I stop using condoms once you start using birth control?
Birth control may protect against pregnancy but not STD’s. Condoms in use with birth control pills will give extra protection.
20. Does taking birth control pills have any side effects?
All women are different; however the most common side effects are mood swings, weight gain, breast tenderness, nausea and headaches.
21. Can taking birth control pills give false positive pregnancy results?
The contraceptive pill would not make a pregnancy test have a positive result. Pregnancy tests look for hormones in the body that are only present when someone is pregnant. But missing taking the pill can put you at risk for pregnancy.
22. After putting on a condom he realizes that it is on inside out and then changed it the right way is it still safe to use it?
It is risky, this is because the penis leaks a few drops of semen as soon as it is hard and this could have got onto the condom.
23. Why do I feel like I have to pee every time I have sex?
Anxiety related to having sex can cause the thought that you have to go to the bathroom as well as some sexual positions can add pressure on the bladder to give you the impression that you have to pee when you don’t.
24. Are tampons dangerous to use?
By using tampons you increase the risk of getting Toxic Shock Syndrome. 1 to 17 of every 100,000 menstruating women and girls will get the syndrome due to bacterium that can be found in the vagina of some women.
25. How long can sperm survive?
Sperm can live in the body for three days and can survive up to seven days.
26. Can you get pregnant by swallowing semen?
The millions of sperm that is contained in semen needs to travel up the vagina and through the cervix into the uterus to fertilize the egg. The egg can not be fertilized by semen being swallowed down the throat.
27. Is it ok to have sex during a yeast infection?
It is not suggestible to have genital to genital contact when having a yeast infection because it can be transmitted between partners.
28. Does having sex cause a change in your periods?
Being sexually active does not change your periods, however stress, nutrition, exercise changes, medications and infections can.
29. Is having sex daily normal?
It is perfectly normal and part of human nature.
30. Is pulling out safe?
No, not at all. Pulling out does not prevent pregnancy or STDs
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