Bad Smell in Semen? Reasons, Symptoms, Solutions & Home Remedies!
Sep 19th, 2025 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
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A noticeable and persistent bad smell in semen can be concerning. Normally, semen has a mild, somewhat musky, or slightly chlorine-like odor, often described as similar to bleach. This is due to its natural chemical composition, especially the alkalinity. However, a strong, foul, fishy, or unusually sweet odor could indicate an underlying health issue.
It’s crucial to consult a healthcare professional if you experience a persistent bad smell in your semen, as it can be a symptom of an infection or another medical condition.
Bad Smell in Semen – Detailed Reasons/Causes:
The primary reasons for an unusual or foul odor in semen often involve infections, dietary factors, or hygiene issues.
Infections:
Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs):
Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Trichomoniasis: These can cause bacterial infections in the reproductive or urinary tracts, leading to an abnormal odor, often described as fishy. They can also cause discharge, itching, and pain.
Urinary Tract Infection (UTI):
Bacteria in the urinary system (bladder, urethra) can affect the smell of urine, and since semen also passes through the urethra, it can pick up an abnormal odor.
Prostatitis (Inflammation of the Prostate Gland):
The prostate gland produces fluids for semen. An infection or inflammation of this gland can alter the semen’s composition and cause a foul, often strong, odor, along with pain in the groin/pelvis and painful ejaculation.
Epididymitis (Inflammation of the Epididymis):
Inflammation of the coiled tube at the back of the testicle (where sperm matures and is stored) can lead to changes in semen odor, accompanied by testicular pain and swelling.
Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) in a partner:
While not a male infection, if a female partner has bacterial vaginosis (which causes a fishy vaginal odor), semen can temporarily pick up this odor after sexual contact.
Poor Hygiene:
Insufficient cleaning of the penis and surrounding area can lead to a buildup of sweat, dead skin cells, and bacteria, which can contribute to an unpleasant odor that may transfer to the semen. This is particularly relevant for uncircumcised men if the area under the foreskin isn’t cleaned properly.
Diet and Beverages:
Strong-Smelling Foods: Certain foods can affect body fluids, including semen. Foods like garlic, onions, asparagus, broccoli, red meat, and strong spices can alter the semen’s taste and smell.
Coffee and Alcohol: Excessive consumption of coffee and alcohol can lead to dehydration and may influence the smell of semen in some individuals.
Dehydration: Not drinking enough water can make semen more concentrated and potentially alter its odor.
Medications:
Some medications can affect bodily fluids and their odors, including semen.
Hormonal Imbalances:
Though less common, hormonal fluctuations or imbalances can sometimes impact the overall body chemistry, potentially influencing semen odor.
Associated Symptoms: Along with a bad smell in semen, you might experience other symptoms depending on the underlying cause. These additional symptoms can help a doctor diagnose the problem:
Burning or pain during urination.
Increased frequency or urgency of urination.
Unusual discharge from the penis (pus, yellowish, greenish).
Itching, redness, or swelling in the genital area.
Pain or discomfort in the testicles, groin, or lower abdominal/pelvic area.
Fever, chills, or general feeling of being unwell (indicating an infection).
Pain during ejaculation or sexual activity.
Blood in urine or semen (hematuria/hematospermia).
Home Remedies (for Temporary Relief – Not a Cure):
These home remedies are primarily aimed at improving general hygiene and addressing dietary factors. They do not treat underlying infections or medical conditions. It is essential to consult a doctor for proper diagnosis and treatment if the bad smell persists or is accompanied by other symptoms.
Maintain Good Hygiene: Wash your penis and surrounding area daily with mild, unscented soap and warm water. If uncircumcised, pull back the foreskin and clean thoroughly to prevent smegma buildup. Dry the area completely after washing to prevent bacterial/fungal growth.
Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water throughout the day. This helps flush your system and can dilute semen, potentially reducing a strong odor.
Adjust Your Diet: Consider reducing or temporarily avoiding strong-smelling foods like garlic, onions, red meat, and highly processed foods.
Increase your intake of fruits and vegetables. Limit excessive coffee and alcohol consumption.
Wear Breathable Underwear: Opt for loose-fitting cotton underwear. This helps with air circulation, reduces moisture buildup, and prevents bacterial growth.
Avoid Harsh Products: Do not use perfumed soaps, deodorants, or strong chemicals on your genital area, as they can cause irritation or allergic reactions.
Medical Treatment – Requires Doctor Consultation:
Treatment for a bad smell in semen,
Treatment for a bad smell in semen depends entirely on the underlying cause. A doctor will perform an examination, take your medical history, and may order various tests:
Urine Test/Culture: To check for urinary tract infections.
Semen Analysis/Culture: To check for infections in the semen or prostate.
STI Testing: To screen for sexually transmitted infections.
Blood Tests: To check for inflammation markers or other underlying conditions.
Physical Examination: To check for swelling, discharge, or tenderness.
Do you know.?
Symptomatic and constitutional Homeopathy medicines works well for bad smell in Semen and urine. So consult a experienced homeopathy doctor without any hesitation.
Based on the diagnosis, Homeopathy treatment for bad smell in semen may include:
Hygiene Counseling: Advice on proper personal hygiene practices.
Managing Underlying Conditions: If diabetes or other systemic health issues are contributing, managing those conditions effectively will be part of the treatment.
Important Note: Do not self-diagnose or self-treat with over-the-counter medications or antibiotics without consulting a doctor. Delaying proper medical evaluation can lead to complications or allow infections to worsen. Always seek professional medical advice for persistent or concerning symptoms.
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Human Papilloma Virus HPV எனப்படும் வைரஸால் ஏற்படும் இந்த பாதிப்பு, பாதுகாப்பற்ற உடலுறவின் மூலம் பரவும் நோய்த்தொற்றுகளில் STI மிகவும் பொதுவான ஒன்றாகும்.
இந்த பால்வினை நோய் மருக்கள் குறித்து உங்களுக்கு சரியான விழிப்புணர்வு ஏற்படுத்த வேண்டும் என்பதே எங்களுடைய நோக்கம்.
இப்போது பால்வினை நோய் மருக்களை பற்றி மிகவும் விரிவாக பார்க்கலாம்.
பிறப்புறுப்பு HPV மருக்கள் என்றால் என்ன?
பிறப்புறுப்பு மருக்கள் என்பவை, ஆண் உறுப்பின் மேலோ, பெண் உறுப்பின் மேலோ, ஆசனவாயிலோ, விதைப்பையிலோ அல்லது பிறப்புறுப்பை சுற்றியோ வரக்கூடிய மென்மையான, சதைப்பற்றுள்ள மருக்கள் ஆகும்.
இவை HPV வைரஸ் தொற்றினால் ஏற்படுகின்றன. இந்த வைரஸில் 100-க்கும் மேற்பட்ட வகைகள் இருந்தாலும், மிகச் சில வகைகளே பிறப்புறுப்பு மருக்களை உண்டாக்குகின்றன.
பால்வினை நோய் மருக்கள் எப்படி இருக்கும்:
இவை பொதுவாக தோல் நிறத்திலோ அல்லது சற்று அடர்ந்த நிறத்திலோ காணப்படும். பார்ப்பதற்கு சிறிய மிளகு மாதிரியோ, காலிஃபிளவர் போன்ற தோற்றத்திலோ, கொத்தாகவோ அல்லது தனித்தனியாகவோ இருக்கலாம். சில நேரங்களில் அவை மிகவும் சிறியதாகவும், தட்டையாகவும் இருப்பதால் ஆரம்ப கட்டத்தில் சுலபமாக கண்டுபிடிக்க முடியாமலும் போகலாம்.
பால்வினை நோய் மருக்கள் எந்தெந்த பகுதியில் வரலாம்?:
ஆண்களுக்கு: ஆண்குறி, விதைப்பை, மற்றும் ஆசனவாய் ஆகிய பகுதிகளில் மருக்கள் தோன்றலாம்.
பெண்களுக்கு: பெண்ணுறுப்பின் மேல் பகுதி, பெண்ணுறுப்பின் உட்பகுதி, கருப்பை Cervix வாயிலோ, ஆசனவாயிலோ இந்த மருக்கள் ஏற்படலாம்.
பொதுவாக: பொதுவாக ஆண் பெண் இருவருக்கும் தொடை மற்றும் பிறப்புறுப்பு, அந்தரங்கப் பகுதிகளில் பால்வினை நோய் மருக்கள் வர வாய்ப்புகள் உள்ளது.
பால்வினை நோய் மருக்கள் எப்படி பரவுகிறது?
HPV தொற்று ஒருவரிடமிருந்து மற்றொருவருக்கு எப்படிப் பரவுகிறது என்பதை தெளிவாகப் புரிந்துகொள்வது அவசியம்.
பாலியல் தொடர்பு: பெண்ணுறுப்பின் வழியாகவோ, ஆசனவாய் வழியாகவோ, வாய் வழியாகவோ, ஒருவர் பாதுகாப்பற்ற உடலுறவு வைக்கும் போது பாதிக்கப்பட்ட நபரிடம் இருந்து அடுத்தவருக்கு இந்த மருக்கள் எளிதில் தொற்றும்
தோலுடன் தோல் உரசுதல்: மருக்கள் உள்ள நபருடன் தோலோடு தோல் உரசும்போது ஏற்படும் நேரடித் தொடர்பினாலும் இது பரவக்கூடும். ஆணுறை அணிவது ஓரளவிற்குப் பாதுகாப்பளித்தாலும், அது மூடாத பகுதிகளில் தொற்று இருந்தால், அதன் மூலமும் எளிதில் பரவ வாய்ப்புள்ளது.
அறிகுறிகள் இல்லாமலும் பரவும்: தொற்று உள்ள பலருக்கு எந்தவிதமான மருக்களோ அல்லது அறிகுறிகளோ வெளியில் தெரியாது. ஆனாலும், அவர்களால் இந்த வைரஸை மற்றவர்களுக்குப் பரப்ப முடியும்.
பிரசவத்தின் போது: மிகவும் அரிதாக, தாய்க்கு பிறப்புறுப்பில் தொற்று இருந்தால், குழந்தை பிறக்கும்போது குழந்தைக்கும் தொற்று ஏற்பட வாய்ப்புள்ளது.
HPV ஹெச் பி வி பால்வினை நோய் மருக்கள் எத்தனை வகைகள் உள்ளது? Types of HPV Warts
HPV வைரஸில் பல வகைகள் இருந்தாலும், பிறப்புறுப்பு மருக்களுக்கு முக்கிய காரணமானவை இரண்டு வகைகளாகும்.
குறைந்த ஆபத்துள்ள HPV வகைகள் Low Risk HPV: HPV வகை 6 மற்றும் 11 ஆகியவை சுமார் 90% பிறப்புறுப்பு மருக்களுக்குக் காரணமாகின்றன. இவை பொதுவாக புற்றுநோயை உண்டாக்குவதில்லை. அதனால் “குறைந்த ஆபத்துள்ளவை” என்று அழைக்கப்படுகின்றன.
அதிக ஆபத்துள்ள HPV வகைகள் High Risk HPV: HPV வகை 16 மற்றும் 18 போன்றவை அதிக ஆபத்துள்ள வகைகளாகும். இவை பிறப்புறுப்பு மருக்களை உண்டாக்குவது அரிது. ஆனால், இவை கருப்பை வாய், ஆசனவாய், மற்றும் தொண்டைப் புற்றுநோய் போன்ற கடுமையான நோய்களை ஏற்படுத்தும் அபாயம் கொண்டவை.
ஆகவே, பிறப்புறுப்பில் மருக்கள் இருந்தால், அது பெரும்பாலும் குறைந்த ஆபத்துள்ள வகையாகவே இருக்கும். இருந்தாலும், அலட்சியப்படுத்தாமல் மருத்துவப் பரிசோதனை செய்துகொள்வது மிகவும் அவசியமாகும்.
பால்வினை நோய் மருக்களுக்கான அறி குறிகள் எப்படி இருக்கும்? Signs and Symptoms of HPV warts,
பலருக்கு HPV தொற்று இருந்தாலும் எந்த அறிகுறியும் தெரிவதில்லை. அறிகுறிகள் தோன்றினால், அவை பின்வருமாறு இருக்கலாம்:
சிறு சதை வளர்ச்சிகள்: பிறப்புறுப்பு அல்லது ஆசனவாய்ப் பகுதியில் ஒன்று அல்லது பல சிறிய, வலியற்ற சதை வளர்ச்சிகள் தோன்றுவது.
அரிப்பு மற்றும் அசௌகரியம்: பாதிக்கப்பட்ட பகுதியில் அரிப்பு, எரிச்சல் அல்லது ஒருவித அசௌகரியம் ஏற்படலாம்.
காலிஃபிளவர், மிளகு போன்ற தோற்றம்: பல மருக்கள் ஒன்று சேர்ந்து கொத்தாகவோ, ஒரு சிறிய மிளகு, காலிஃபிளவர் போலவோ காட்சியளிக்கும். ஒரு சிலருக்கு வெள்ளை நிறத்தில் கூட இருக்கலாம்.
ரத்தப்போக்கு: உடலுறவின் போது மருக்கள் மீது உராய்வு ஏற்படுவதால் லேசான ரத்தப்போக்கு வர வாய்ப்புள்ளது.
ஒரு சிலருக்கு மருக்கள் தட்டையாகவும், மென்மையாகவும், கண்ணுக்குத் தெரியாத அளவிலும் இருக்கலாம்.
பால்வினை நோய் மருக்களுக்கான வீட்டு வைத்தியம் என்ன? Home Managements,
மருத்துவரின் ஆலோசனையின்றி நீங்களாகவே மருக்களை அகற்ற முயற்சிப்பது மிகவும் ஆபத்தானது. வீட்டு வைத்தியம் என்பது, நோயின் தீவிரத்தைக் குறைக்கவும், உடல் நலத்தை மேம்படுத்தவும் உதவும் சில வழிமுறைகளையே குறிக்கும்.
சுத்தமாக உடலை வைத்திருப்பது மிகவும் அவசியம்: பாதிக்கப்பட்ட பகுதியை சுத்தமாகவும், உலர்வாகவும் வைத்திருப்பது அவசியம். மென்மையான, கெமிக்கல் & வாசனை இல்லாத சோப்புகளைப் பயன்படுத்தலாம்.
நோய் எதிர்ப்பு சக்தியை அதிகரித்தல்: நோய் எதிர்ப்பு சக்தியை அதிகரிக்கும் வகையில் நிறைய காய்கறி, கீரை, பழங்கள் மற்றும் உலர் பழங்கள் சாப்பிடுவது மிகவும் அவசியம். தேவையான அளவு உடற்பயிற்சி, சரியான நேரம் தூங்க வேண்டும், தேவையான அளவு தண்ணீர் குடிக்க வேண்டும். ஆரோக்கியமற்ற உணவுகளை தவிர்க்க வேண்டும். வலுவான நோயெதிர்ப்பு அமைப்பு, வைரஸை எதிர்த்துப் போராட உதவும்.
மன அழுத்தத்தைக் குறைத்தல்: அதிகப்படியான மன அழுத்தம் நோயெதிர்ப்பு தண்மையைபலவீனப்படுத்தும். தியானம், யோகா போன்ற பயிற்சிகள் மன அழுத்தத்தைக் குறைக்க உதவும்.
மருத்துவர் பரிந்துரைக்காத மருந்துகளைத் தவிர்க்கவும்: கடைகளில் கிடைக்கும் சாதாரண மருக்களுக்கான களிம்புகளை ஒருபோதும் பிறப்புறுப்பு மருக்களுக்குப் பயன்படுத்தக்கூடாது. அப்பகுதியின் தோல் மிகவும் மென்மையானது என்பதால், அது கடுமையான பாதிப்புகளை ஏற்படுத்திவிடும்.
பால்வினை நோய் மருக்கள் வராமல் தடுப்பது எப்படி? Precautions.
“வருமுன் காப்பதே சிறந்தது” என்பதற்கேற்ப, HPV தொற்றைத் தடுக்க சில முக்கிய வழிமுறைகள் உள்ளன.
பாதுகாப்பான உடலுறவு: ஆணுறை பயன்படுத்துவது தொற்று ஏற்படும் அபாயத்தைக் கணிசமாகக் குறைக்கும். இருப்பினும், இது 100% பாதுகாப்பை அளிக்காது.
ஒரு துணை பழக்கம்: ஒருவருடன் மட்டுமே பாலியல் உறவு வைத்துக்கொள்வது, தொற்று ஏற்படும் அபாயத்தைக் குறைக்கும்.
புகைப்பிடித்தலைத் தவிர்த்தல்: புகைப்பிடிப்பது நோயெதிர்ப்பு மண்டலத்தைப் பாதிப்பதோடு, மருக்கள் மீண்டும் மீண்டும் வருவதற்கான வாய்ப்பை அதிகரிக்கும்.
மருத்துவப் பரிசோதனை: நிறைய பேர்களுடன் பாலியல் ரீதியாக தொடர்பில் இருப்பவர்கள்,அடிக்கடி பால்வினை நோய் மருத்துவப் பரிசோதனைகளைச் செய்துகொள்வது நல்லது.
ஹெச் பி வி மருக்கள் ஹோமியோபதி சிகிச்சை – HPV Warts Homeopathy Treatment
ஹோமியோபதி மருந்துகள், நோயின் மூல காரணத்தைக் கண்டறிந்து, உடலின் இயற்கையான குணப்படுத்தும் ஆற்றலைத் தூண்டிவிடுவதன் மூலம் செயல்படுகிறது. பிறப்புறுப்பு மருக்களுக்கு ஹோமியோபதியில் நல்ல தீர்வுகள் இருக்கிறது.
தகுதிவாய்ந்த, அனுபவம் மிக்க ஹோமியோபதி மருத்துவர், நோயாளியின் உடல் மற்றும் மன அறிகுறிகள், வாழ்க்கை முறை, மற்றும் நோயின் தன்மை ஆகியவற்றை விரிவாக ஆராய்ந்து, அதற்கேற்ற மருந்தைத் தேர்வு செய்வார். மருந்துகள் ஒவ்வொரு நோயாளிக்கும் மாறுபடும்.
முக்கிய குறிப்பு: எந்தவொரு ஹோமியோபதி மருந்தையும் சுயவிருப்பத்தின் பேரில் எடுத்துக்கொள்ளக் கூடாது. ஹோமியோபதி மருத்துவரை அணுகி, அவரது ஆலோசனைப்படி மட்டுமே மருந்துகளை உட்கொள்ள வேண்டும்.
பிறப்புருப்பு மருக்கள் இருக்கிறதா?. கவலைப்படாதீர்கள்;
பிறப்புறுப்பு HPV மருக்கள் என்பது மிகவும் பயப்பட வேண்டிய ஒரு விஷயமல்ல. இது ஒரு பொதுவான மருத்துவ நிலையே. சரியான நேரத்தில் மருத்துவரை அணுகி, முறையான சிகிச்சை மற்றும் தடுப்பு முறைகளைப் பின்பற்றினால், இதிலிருந்து முழுமையாக விடுபடலாம். விழிப்புணர்வுடனும், சரியான தகவல்களுடனும் இந்த பிரச்சனையை எதிர்கொள்வோம்.
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Genital Warts Tamil ,
HPV அறிகுறிகள் ,
HPV சிகிச்சை ,
HPV தடுப்பூசி ,
HPV மருக்கள் ,
HPV வைரஸ் ,
STI Tamil. ,
அந்தரங்க நோய் ,
ஆண்கள் நலம் ,
பாலியல் தொற்று ,
பாலியல் நலம் ,
பிறப்புறுப்பு அரிப்பு ,
பெண்கள் நலம் ,
மருக்கள் நீங்க ,
ஹோமியோபதி சிகிச்சை
HPV warts Homeopathy Treatment Chennai
Sep 20th, 2024 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
Greetings to all,
This is Dr Senthil Kumar,
Now a days many peoples suffering with genital warts. Especially those who are doing un-protected sex.
Now, let us see about genital warts.
Genital warts are, one of the most common types of, sexually transmitted infections.
Nearly, all sexually active people, will become infected with, at least one type of human papillomavirus – HPV, the virus that causes genital warts, at some point during their lives.
Genital warts, affect the moist tissues of the genital area. They can look like, small skin bump, a cluster of bumps, flesh-coloured bumps, cauliflower-like appearance, or stem-like protrusions. These warts can range in size and appearance,, In many cases, the warts are too small, to be visible.
Some strains of genital HPV can cause genital warts,
Genital warts are sexually transmitted. There are more than 200 different types of the HPV virus.
There are many different colour and shapes in HPV warts, like, flat or cauliflower-shaped, white, pink, red, purplish-brown, or skin-coloured
HPV will form on,
Vulva,
Cervix,
Penis, or scrotum,
Anus,
groin area,
These warts can cause itching, burning, and other discomfort.
Now, let us see, some Other types of warts.
HPV, can also cause, common warts, plantar warts, and flat warts.
Common warts are seems to be, rough, raised bumps, that, tend to form on the, hands, fingers, and elbows.
Plantar warts are, hard, grainy growths, that, often form on the, feet, usually on the, heels, or, balls of the feet.
Then, Flat warts are, flat-topped, slightly raised, lesions that are darker than the surrounding skin, and often appear on the face, or neck.
Now, let us see the Symptoms of HPV,
In women, genital warts can grow,
on the vulva,
the walls of the vagina,
the area between the external genitals,
and the anus, the anal canal, and the cervix.
In men, they may occur on the tip, or shaft of the penis, the scrotum, or the anus.
Genital warts, can also develop in the mouth, or throat of a person, who has had, oral sexual contact, with an infected person.
The other few signs, and symptoms of genital warts, include,
Small, flesh-coloured, brown, or pink swellings, in your genital area,
A cauliflower-like shape, caused by several warts close together.
Itching, or discomfort, in your genital area,
Some times, Bleeding may happens, after intercourse.
Few, Genital warts can be, so small, and flat, as to be invisible.
Rarely, however genital warts can multiply, into large clusters, in someone with a suppressed immune system.
Now, let us discuss, how to Prevent HPV wart infection.
Sexually active people, can reduce the risk of developing genital warts, in several ways. Using barrier protection, such as condoms, reduces but does not completely eliminate the risk.
It is important, for sexually active people, to keep in mind, that a person can transmit HPV, without knowing that they have it. without the presence of genital warts.
A person can contract, or transmit an HPV infection, through skin-to-skin genital contact, such as, during vaginal, anal, or oral sex.
Some people have the infection ,but experience no symptoms and show no signs.
Those who are having sexual contact without using barrier protection, are easily infected with HPV genital warts.
Now, we will see about the treatment for HPV genital warts,
There are chances to re occur, HPV warts even after, Laser, Cryo Surgical removal. Applying topical acid based creams, and lotions may take of the warts, for few days or months. But, again there are chances to re appear.
In Homeopathy system of medicines, Symptomatic, constitutional, Homeopathy medicines are, helps for genital warts. This also, helps to prevent further, appearance. So, if you suffering with genital warts, its better to consult a homeopathy doctor, without any hesitation.
Thank you,
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ஆண்மை குறைபாடு விந்தணுக்கள் குறைபாடு இரண்டுக்கும் என்ன வித்தியாசம்?
Jul 11th, 2024 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
aanmai kuraivu arikurigal ,
aanmai kuraivu arikurigal tamil ,
ஆண்மை அதிகரிக்க நாட்டு மருந்து ,
ஆண்மை அதிகரிக்க வீட்டு மருத்துவம் ,
ஆண்மை குறைபாடு அறிகுறிகள் ,
ஆண்மை குறைவு அறிகுறிகள் ,
ஆண்மை மருத்துவம் ,
விதைப்பை எரிச்சல் ,
விதைப்பை நரம்பு சுருள் அறிகுறிகள் ,
விதைப்பை வெரிகோஸ் ,
விதைப்பை வெரிகோஸ் அறிகுறிகள் ,
விந்தணு அதிகரிக்க ,
விந்தணு அதிகரிக்க உணவு ,
விந்தணு அதிகரிக்க என்ன சாப்பிடலாம் ,
விந்தணு குறைபாடு அறிகுறிகள் ,
விந்தின் அளவு என்ன ,
வெரிகோசில்
Sex Glossary & Psychological Sexual Problems Homeopathy Treatment
Mar 3rd, 2011 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
Abortion – The surgical procedure to terminate a pregnancy in its early stage
Active – The person who takes the male or aggressive role in a sexual relationship
Adultery – Sexual intercourse between two people when one or both parties are married to someone else
Affair – A love affair or sexual relationship that is illicit or secret
Amateur – A girl who indulges in sexual intercourse frequently without pay usually with several men
Anal Coitus – sex in the rectum
Anal Eroticism – Sexual sensitivity in the anus or rectum
Anal Fetish – A preoccupation with or preference for the anus or rectum
Anal Intercourse – The introduction of any foreign body into he anus by another person for sexual relations
Andrin – The hormones produced by the male sex glands
Anus – The opening of the rectum
Aphrodisiac – ingested substance that increases the sexual appetite
Arc of Erection – The angle at which the penis extends from the body when aroused
Areola – The brownish or pinkish area of flesh immediately surrounding the nipple of the breasts
Around the World – The act of kissing the entire body from one end to the other as a prelude for other sexual activity
Artificial Insemination – Impregnating artificially by injecting semen into the uterus by means of a syringe
Back Door – The anus or rectum
Beat Off – To perform manual masturbation of the penis
Bestiality – Sexual relations with animals
Bi-sexual – An individual who takes part in sexual activity with both sexes
Bitch – A woman or girl who is promiscuous
Blast Off – To experience orgasms
Blowjob – The act of performing oral sex on a male
Blue Balls – Pain in the testicles from lack of ejaculation
Bondage – The practice of sexual domination of a sado-masochist quality, including restraints, humiliation, punishment, torture etc..
Boobs – The female breasts
Bordello – House of prostitution
Breasts – Either of two milk-secreting, glandular organs on the chest of a woman; the human mammary gland
Broad – Any girl or young woman
Brothel – A house of prostitution
Browning – To perform anal intercourse
Buck Naked – Completely naked
Burn – To infect someone with a venereal disease
Bush – Pubic hair of either sex especially if it’s thick or coarse; often more associated with female pubes
Bush Dinner – Cunnilingus
Butch – A lesbian who is very masculine in traits and appearance
Buttocks – The rump formed by the two protuberances behind the hips on which human beings sit
Cake Eater – A cunnilinguist
Cake Shop – A house of prostitution
Cane – The penis in a state of erection
Canoe Inspector – A gynecologist
Carnal – Relating to physical and especially sexual appetites
Casanova – An adventurous lover and seducer of women
Castration – Surgical procedures performed upon the testicles to make the reproductive glands inoperable
Cat House – A house of prostitution
Celibacy – The state of being unmarried and of living a life with no sexual relations
Cervix – The openingto the uterus or womb at the far end of the vagina
Cancroid -A small ulcer usually occurring on the genitals – very infectious
Cheat – To be unfaithful to one’s spouse or regular sex partner
Cheeks – The fleshy portion of the buttocks
Cherries – the female nipples
Cherry – The hymen in virgin women
Circumcision – Surgical removal of the foreskin of the penis
Cleavage – The valley which separates the female breasts
Clitoral Stimulation – Direct manipulation or rubbing of the clitoris using any means
Clitoridotomy – Female circumcision
Clitoris – The principle organ of sexual sensation in the female. It is shaped like a small peak and located just above the vaginal entrance beneath the labia minora. Like the penis of a male, the clitoris enlarges when stimulated
Closet Dyke – An active female homosexual who puts her true character in hiding
Closet Queen – See Closet Dyke
Cock Eater – One who performs oral sex on a male
Cocksucker – Anyone who performs oral sex on a male
Cock Teaser – One who excites a male without carrying on to actual sex relations
Cohabit – To live, sleep and have sexual relations as a man and wife
Coitus – Sexual intercourse
Come – To have an orgasm or reach a sexual climax
Conception – The uniting of semen and ovum during intercourse; impregnation
Concurrent Climax – A simultaneous climax or orgasm between two partners
Condom – A prophylactic;A flexible sheath, usually made of thin rubber or latex, designed to cover the penis during sexual intercourse for contraceptive purposes or as a means of preventing sexually transmitted diseases
Contraceptive – A device, drug, or chemical agent that prevents conception
Cookie – The female or male genitalia
Cop a Cherry – To copulate with a virgin
Cop a Feel – To fondle a person without necessarily continuing with other more explicit sexual activity
Copulation – Sexual intercourse in a conventional manner, the male inserts his penis into the vagina
Corona – The ridge of skin which forms the base of the penis and separates the head from the shaft
Cosset – To fondle and caress lovingly and with physical intimacy
Courtesan – A very high class of prostitute or kept woman
Crab Lice – Very small vermin which infest the pubic areas of human beings and are passed on to others through sexual intercourse
Cream – Semen ejaculated in intercourse
Crotch – The genital area of the pelvis
Crud – Anything that is dirty and dried
Cruise – To look over perspective love partners
Cunnilingus – Oral sex performed on the female vagina
Cunt – The vagina; A derogatory designation for any female
Cunt Lapper – One who practices cunnilingus
Daisy Chain – A group sex activity in which there is a linking of several people who are connected sexually with each other for the purpose of achieving orgasms
Dead Stick – A penis which is either permanently or temporarily incapable of an erection
Debauchery – Overindulgence in sexual pleasures
Defile – To rape or otherwise violate a woman who is still a virgin
Defloration – The act of taking away a female’s virginity
Degenerate – A person whose abnormalities go way beyond the average actions of heterosexual or homosexual intercourse
Dermophiliac – A leather fetishist
Derriere – The backside or buttocks
Deviate – A sex pervert of any kind
Diaphragm – A contraceptive device consisting of a thin flexible disk, usually made of rubber that is designed to cover the uterine cervix to prevent the entry of sperm during sexual intercourse
Dick Dip – The simple act of copulation
Dicktaster – One who engages in oral sex with a male
Diddle – To perform masturbation
Dildo – An artificial penis used by a female to perform masturbation
Dirty Barrel – A penis or vagina infected with a venereal disease
Discipline -Punishment intended to correct or train used in masochist-sadist practices
Dishonorable Discharge – An act of masturbation by the male, particularly when he had been greatly aroused by a girl who will not submit to sexual intercourse
Dissolute – Free of any sexual restraints
Don Juan – A type of lover who enjoys feeling victory in seduction more than the sensual pleasure
Douche – The cleaning process of the vagina by use of a spray attachment
Drag – The wearing of clothing of the opposite sex
Drag Queen – A female impersonator
Dry Run/Fuck – The act of rubbing pelvises with a female while fully clothed. The practice might result in an actual orgasm
Dyke – A female that assumes the masculine role in a lesbian relationship
Easy Mark – A woman who will enter a sexual relationship without much persuasion
Effeminate – Feminine in appearance and/or in actions
Ejaculation – The forceful discharge of semen through the urethra of the penis, which determines the moment of orgasm in males.
Emasculation – Castration
Erection – The firm and enlarged condition of a body organ or part when the erectile tissue surrounding it becomes filled with blood, especially such a condition of the penis or clitoris
Erogenous – Responsive or sensitive to sexual stimulation arousing sexual desire
Eros – The Greek god of love
Erotic – Tending to arouse sexual desire or concerning sexual love
Exhibition – A sex orgy or circus, usually a semi-private affair that one must pay to see
Exhibitionist – One who likes to display their body in the nude, particularly the genitals, in public or before a group
Exotic – A stripper or other dancer who does a strip tease or other suggestive interpretive dance in a minimum of costume or one fitted to the configuration of the body
Fairy – A male homosexual
Family Jewels – The male testicles
Fanny – The buttocks [USA] The Vagina [UK]
Feel Up – To manipulate female’s erogenous areas while embracing or petting
Feel My Pulse – A man’s invitation to his love partner to grasp his penis and thus gauge his passion
Fellatio – Oral sex on the male member effected by introducing the penis into the mouth and sucking on the organ while moving the head up and down to emulate the motions of copulation and continuing to he point of orgasm
Fem – The passive female in a homosexual relationship. Opposite of Dyke
Female Domination – A sex practice whereby the man desires to be completely dominated by his female partner
Fetish – Sexual devotion to a particular object or part of the body. This may be any portion of the body or some inanimate thing such as a piece of clothing
Finger – To manipulate a female’s vagina with the fingers
Flaccid – Denoting the state of the penis when limp
Flagellation – The propensity for sexual satisfaction from whipping or being whipped
Flang – The corona of the penis
Fleshpot – A red light district or general area where prostitutes hang out
Flute – A male homosexual
Fly Jockey – A man who copulates without removing his trousers through the fly of his pants
Fool Around – To engage in sexual foreplay with no serious intent of intercourse
Foreplay – The love play leading up to intercourse
Foreskin – The loose fold of skin that covers the glans of the penis at birth
Fornication – Sexual intercourse between partners who are not married to each other
Fraternize – To keep intimate company with a person
Freak – A person who desires sex in bizarre and unusual ways
Freebie – Sexual conquest without monetary cost
Free Show – A quick peek at a girl’s thighs or breasts as she adjusts a stocking or bra strap, crosses her legs etc..
French – To perform oral sex
French Kiss – To kiss passionately with the lips parted and tongues exploring
Fresh Meat – A female virgin or one who is relatively new to intercourse
Frig – To finger the female genitalia
Frottage – The practice of rubbing up against someone for sexual gratification
Fruitcake – A male homosexual
Fuck – The act of copulation
Fur – pubes of the vagina
Gallant – A refined gentleman
Gang Bang – A party or orgy in which two or more males takes turns having intercourse with the same girl
Garden – The female genital region
Gay – Referring to either a male or female homosexual
Genitalia – The surface organs of reproduction on both the male and the female
Get It Up – To achieve an erect penis
Get Your Rocks Off – Males achieving orgasm
Gigolo – A man who profits from his association with women. This type is usually very good looking and has plenty of sex appeal
Ginger – A prostitute who makes a habit of robbing her customers
Give Head – To perform oral sex on a male
Glans Clitorides – The head of the clitoris
Glans Penis – The head of the penis
Globes – The female breasts
Glory Hole – A hole, which has been cut in the wall of a public toilet to another adjoining toilet and used by homosexuals to observe or interact with someone else
Gobbler – A person who enjoys oral sex with a male
Go Down – To perform oral sex on a person’s genitals
Golden Shower – A method of perverted gratification of a sexual desire attained by urinating on your love partner or being urinated upon
Gonads – The testicles or the ovaries, which are primary sex glands in the male and female for producing future generations
Gonorrhea – A sexually transmitted disease caused by gonococcal bacteria that affects the mucous membrane chiefly of the genital and urinary tracts and is characterized by an acute purulent discharge and painful or difficult urination, though women often have no symptoms
Goose – To playfully tickle someone from behind usually aiming for the rear end
Grapefruits – Extremely large female breasts
Grass – The pubic area in males or females
Greek Love – Anal intercourse
Grinder – A stripper or other entertainer bumping her pelvis
Group Masturbation – Three or more persons who practice masturbation on each other or themselves in a group party
Group Sex – An exhibition or orgy among couples who engage in either simple acts of copulation or perverted sexual encounters with other couples or singles taking turns at both performing and watching the other performers
G-string – A small material covering only the female pubic area, which is secured by thin straps around the hips
Gynecologist – A physician specializing in the care and treatment of the female genitalia and reproductive tract
Hair Pie – The Vagina as an object of cunnilingus
Hand Job – Masturbation when it is received from the hands of another
Hanky-Panky – An immoral or illicit sexual activity
Hard On – An erection indicating the state in the male where the penis is actually hard
Hard Up – The term is primarily used by men and refers to a lack of a sex partner
Harem – A collection of lovers, which are available to be used by one person
Head – One who performs oral sex
Headlights – Large female breasts
Hedonism – A way of life in which one gratifies all sexual and sensual desires of the individual without moral restraint
Hermaphrodite – A person who is born with both male and female genitals although one set is almost always incompletely developed
Hershey Highway – The rectum
Heterosexual – A person who prefers sexual intercourse only with members of the opposite sex
Homosexual – One with a complete sexual attraction for only members of their own sex
Horizontal exercise – Intercourse
Horny – Passionate and needing sexual intercourse
Horse Around – To play, cuddle, fondle and pet up to the point of intercourse
Hot – An indication of the body temperature during moments of great passion
Hung – Referring to size of the male genitalia and used particularly to denote a penis size of immense proportions
Hustle – To seek customers when one is a prostitute
Hymen – The fold of membrane partly covering the orifice of the virgin vagina in childhood and adolescence but usually broken during the first act of intercourse by the insertion of the penis
Immoral – Unlawful or improper relations of a sexual nature
Impotency – Incapable of intercourse as associated with the male who is incapable of achieving an erection due to age, stress, physical or psychological problems
Impregnation – The uniting of the male semen with the female ovum and onset of pregnancy
Incest – Sexual relations between members of an immediate family other than the husband and wife
Indecent – Often refers to exposing one’s genital parts in public
Intercourse – The Sexual joining together of two partners in the act of copulation
Jack Off – Males performing masturbation
Jerk Off – To perform masturbation of the male member
Jerk The Snake – To perform masturbation of the male member
Kama – Great sexual passion (Hindu love god)
Kinky – Sexually abnormal or perverse
Knobs – The female breasts
Knockers – The female breasts, especially if large and sexually stimulating in appearance
Knock Up – To impregnate, make pregnant
Knot – The corona of the penis
Labia Majora – The large outer lips that mark the entrance to the vagina
Labia Minora – The smaller, inner lips at the entrance to the vagina which are formed just below the labia majora
Lap It – To perform oral sex on the female
Lavender Boy – A male homosexual
Lay – The act of copulation or other intercourse
Lesbian – A female homosexual
Libido – Sexual need, hunger or appetite
Lick – To perform oral sex on a female
Lips – 1.The fleshy folds which form the opening of the mouth on the human face and are secondary erogenous zone 2. The labia majora and labia minora of the female vulva
Little Brother – The penis
Little Sister – The vagina
Load – The product of a single ejaculation
Lollipop – The vagina or penis as an object of oral intercourse
Lust – Sexual desire or passion, particularly when odd a heightened or extreme nature
Madam – The proprietress or manager of a house of prostitution
Mammae or Mammary Glands – The breasts, which are capable of producing and secreting milk
Mammary Intercourse – Intercourse performed by penile contact with the breasts of the lover partner
Manual Exercises – Masturbation
Masochism – Desire for maltreatment as a means of sexual gratification
Masturbation – The practice of arriving at orgasm through manual manipulation or other frictional contact with the genitalia without copulation
Matinee – An afternoon session of copulation or other love making
Melons – The female breasts
Menopause – The change of life in women during which menstruation ceases and other mental and physical changes may occur
Menstruation – A periodic vaginal flow of bloody mass and liquid occurring about once a month and lasting 3-5 days which carries out with it the unfertilized ovum from the uterus. It is immediately after the period that the female is normally the most receptive to sexual activity
Mess Around – To cheat sexually on one’s spouse or love partner. 2.To engage in foreplay short of actual intercourse
Misfire – Accidental ejaculation during love play prior to intercourse
Mons Veneris – Pubic mound
Mowed Lawn – Descriptive of the vagina when the pubic mound is shaved
Muff Diver – One who performed oral sex on the female
Multiple Climax – A series of several successive orgasms experienced by many females during a single act of coitus
Mutual Masturbation – Group masturbation whereby two or more people of the same or different sexes either masturbate themselves or each other in concert and attempt to achieve orgasm at the same time
Mysophilia – The love of things filthy and unclean
Narcissism – Pleasure or desire stimulated by one’s own body
Naughty – Indecent; improper
Neck – To kiss while embracing
Necrophilia – Sexual love of the dead including actual intercourse with corpses
Ninnies – The female breasts
Nipples – The small projection near the center of the mammary gland containing the outlets of the milk ducts through which young mammals obtain milk from the adult female; a teat
Nymphomaniac – female with excessive and insatiable desire for sexual activity (nympho)
Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome, Genital Arousal Disorder PSAS
Mar 2nd, 2011 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS) or Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder (PGAD)
This is a phenomenon relating mainly to women’s sexual health , in which afflicted women complain of sudden and frequent feelings of genital arousal that are qualitatively different from the kind of sexual arousal that is associated with sexual desire or subjective arousal.
Masturbation and orgasms offer little or no relief. It is a very rare condition and it is possible that sufferers don’t report the condition because of the shame and embarrassment the disclosure would involve.
Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome should not be confused with hypersexuality (sometimes known as nymphomania) where the woman displays a compulsive sexual desire and need for sex.
Symptoms of Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS) or
Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder (PGAD) in women
include –
Genital and breast vasocongestion (sudden and increased rush of blood) and sensitivity, setting off a highly distracting tingling sensation in the genital areas that persist for a lengthy period of time—sometimes for days, weeks and even months with little relief even after dozens of orgasms.
All women who report suffering from persistent sexual arousal syndrome find it unwanted, uncomfortable and distressing and get only temporary relief with orgasm.
Though the sexual arousal happens for some women round the clock (except while asleep) for no reason at all, even non-sexual stimuli such as riding in an automobile or train, mobile phone vibrations or even using the toilet are said to spike the syndrome unbearably.
Though it can affect women of any age, some doctors observe that the patients are mainly post-menopausal women in their 40s and 50s or women who have taken hormonal treatment and that it could be the result of an irregularity in sensory nerves.
Often the symptoms happen after surgery of bladder or brain surgery .
In some patients the simple up and down movement of legs can cause arousal.
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Foreplay – உடலுறவுக்கு தயார் படுத்தும் முன்விளையாட்டு
Dec 19th, 2009 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
Foreplay
Foreplay is that *Thing* you’re meant to do before you get down to business.
Why am I telling you this? I don’t know. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that a recent survey found that 70% of Indians have little or no idea about what foreplay is or rather, what it has the potential to be.
For the uninitiated, foreplay consists of all the actions involved in the seduction of a partner ;
Kissing,
Caressing,
Stroking,
Nibbling,
Sucking,
Kneading,
Massaging,
Nuzzling,
And yeah the list goes on.
In short, it’s the lead up to, and the big fat line between ordinary and mind-blowing sex.
Foreplay is not only fun, it’s also essential for the creation of a mood. Unlike men, who are visual creatures and can get turned on by the mere sight of a woman’s naked body, women respond to sounds, touch and most importantly, to suggestion. Hence, foreplay is more about teasing suggestion than overt sexual gestures. A woman who is not aroused will find sex a painful and unpleasant experience and so it’s important for your man to take his time during foreplay to get you ready for what’s to follow. Similarly, if you want to come away feeling smugly like you was the best he’s ever had; you need to spend more time on perfecting the art of foreplay.
Few great foreplay moves
(Guaranteed to lead to the best sex of your life!)
Prolong the ‘making out’ . Kiss, cuddle, or even play around. Giggle, laugh and tussle in bed, on the sofa or wherever you are. Don’t get all serious and hot and heavy too fast. When you can look into each others eyes, with your hair all tousled, and your cheeks flushed from giggling, sex is a hundred times more beautiful.
Massage each other . Remember it’s about the relaxation and the unwinding of the muscles. Let your partner feel the stress of his/her day melt away under the skill of your fingers. Only when you feel that they are in that nice intoxicated state of comfort, do you snap them out of it with something more ahem…unexpected!
Zero in on all your partners erogenous zones . To put it simply, pamper those places on your lover’s body that gives them most pleasure. Tease, touch, kiss, nuzzle or lick, but keep them wanting more. Don’t make any sexual overtures yet. Suggestion is the sexiest part of sex! For instance, if you’re kissing your lover’s feet, move onto the inside of the ankle and calf. Nuzzling, softly biting, licking and kissing the ears, nape of the neck, behind the knees and the belly works wonders because of the ultra sensitive nature of these parts.
The chest/breasts can be fondled and kissed to great advantage ! You can even be inventive and use props like feathers or silk scarves to blindfold or tantalize your partner.
A last but not least word of advice ; Before you embark on this wonderful journey, set the mood by turning down the lights, lighting some candles and playing soft music. Wear clothes that caress and cling and wow your lover like he’s never seen before!
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Health Benefits of Sex – உடலுறவால் ஏற்படும் நன்மைகள்
Dec 19th, 2009 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
Health Benefits of Sex
It’s fun to have sex, but did you know that is also offers many health benefits? Sex does a body good in a number of ways, and the health benefits aren’t just anecdotal or hearsay — each of these 10 health benefits of sex is backed by scientific scrutiny.
Sex Relieves Stress
A big health benefit of sex is lower blood pressure and overall stress reduction, according to researchers from Scotland who reported their findings in the journal Biological Psychology. They studied 24 women and 22 men who kept records of their sexual activity. Then the researchers subjected them to stressful situations — such as speaking in public and doing verbal arithmetic — and noted their blood pressure response to stress.
Those who had intercourse had better responses to stress than those who engaged in other sexual behaviours or abstained.
Another study published in the same journal found that frequent intercourse was associated with lower diastolic blood pressure in cohabiting participants. Yet other research found a link between partner hugs and lower blood pressure in women.
Sex Boosts Immunity
Good sexual health may mean better physical health. Having sex once or twice a week has been linked with higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A or IgA, which can protect you from getting colds and other infections.
Scientists at Wilkes University in Wilkes-Barre, Pa., took samples of saliva, which contain IgA, from 112 college students who reported the frequency of sex they had. Those in the “frequent” group — once or twice a week — had higher levels of IgA than those in the other three groups — who reported being abstinent, having sex less than once a week, or having it very often, three or more times weekly.
Sex Burns Calories
Thirty minutes of sex burns 85 calories or more. It may not sound like much, but it adds up: 42 half-hour sessions will burn 3,570 calories, more than enough to lose a pound. Doubling up, you could drop that pound in 21 hour-long sessions.
Sex Improves Cardiovascular Health
While some older folks may worry that the efforts expended during sex could cause a stroke, that’s not so, according to researchers from England. In a study published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, scientists found frequency of sex was not associated with stroke in the 914 men they followed for 20 years.
And the heart health benefits of sex don’t end there. The researchers also found that having sex twice or more a week reduced the risk of fatal heart attack by half for the men, compared with those who had sex less than once a month.
Sex Boosts Self-Esteem
Boosting self-esteem was one of 237 reasons people have sex, collected by University of Texas researchers and published in the Archives of Sexual Behaviour.
Sex Improves Intimacy
Having sex and orgasms increases levels of the hormone oxytocin, the so-called love hormone, which helps us bond and build trust. Researchers from the University of Pittsburgh and the University of North Carolina evaluated 59 pre menopausal women before and after warm contact with their husbands and partners ending with hugs. They found that the more contact, the higher the oxytocin levels.
Higher oxytocin has also been linked with a feeling of generosity. So if you’re feeling suddenly more generous toward your partner than usual, credit the love hormone.
Sex Reduces Pain
As the hormone oxytocin surges, endorphins increase, and pain declines. So if your headache, arthritis pain, or PMS symptoms seem to improve after sex, you can thank those higher oxytocin levels.
In a study published in the Bulletin of Experimental Biology and Medicine, 48 volunteers who inhaled oxytocin vapour and then had their fingers pricked lowered their pain threshold by more than half.
Sex Reduces Prostate Cancer Risk
Frequent ejaculations, especially in 20-something men, may reduce the risk of prostate cancer later in life, Australian researchers reported in the British Journal of Urology
International. When they followed men diagnosed with prostate cancer and those without, they found no association of prostate cancer with the number of sexual partners as the men reached their 30s, 40s, and 50s.
But they found men who had five or more ejaculations weekly while in their 20s reduced their risk of getting prostate cancer later by a third.
Another study, reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association, found that frequent ejaculations, 21 or more a month, were linked to lower prostate cancer risk in older men, as well, compared with less frequent ejaculations of four to seven monthly.
Sex Strengthens Pelvic Floor Muscles
For women, doing a few pelvic floor muscle exercises known as Kegels during sex offers a couple of benefits. You will enjoy more pleasure, and you’ll also strengthen the area and help to minimize the risk of incontinence later in life.
To do a basic Kegel exercise, tighten the muscles of your pelvic floor, as if you’re trying to stop the flow of urine. Count to three, then release.
Sex Helps You Sleep Better
The oxytocin released during orgasm also promotes sleep, according to research.
And getting enough sleep has been linked with a host of other good things, such as maintaining a healthy weight and blood pressure. Something to think about, especially if you’ve been wondering why your guy can be active one minute and snoring the next.
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What is Sperm – விந்தனுக்கள் என்றால் என்ன?
Dec 19th, 2009 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
Sperm
Sperm are the swimming, fighting parts of the complicated reproduction process that gives birth to more and more of us each day. So how does this process occur? It all starts with the building blocks of life and the composition of spermatozoa.
Sperm Composition
The sperm has a few different components, with all the “good stuff” being stored in the head. The file with this information (DNA) is called the nucleus and it will eventually be the only thing to merge with the female’s egg. The blueprints for life exist in this most tiny of spaces; the coding that will eventually determine so much of the physical life that we enjoy.
The only way for this life coding to get where it needs to go, is by “swimming.” This action actually refers to their motility, which means that they can move on their own. To create motion the spermatozoa have a tail that is lined with mitochondria, which drive the swimming motion of the sperm. Mitochondria are sub-cellular, meaning that they are smaller than the cells that they inhabit, and their function is to take various types of nutrients found in the body and converts it into energy, thus allowing them to perform all sorts of useful tasks – like reducing the effects of your hang over.
Sperm Lifecycle
Having an understanding of the basic make-up of the sperm’s physical structure, we can now examine how sperm are created, spend their lives and are involved in the birth of new life.
Sperm Production or Spermatogenesis
Thirteen years for men (and a little younger for women) marks the beginning of puberty and the initiation of sperm production in the male. It can take between 64 to 72 days for the generation of a new sperm cell.
Men must be constantly making new sperm, in rapid overlapping production schedules, because during every ejaculation he expels roughly a quarter of a billion spermatozoa. This is a very rigorous schedule for the body to maintain, so keeping the system healthy is of utmost importance. For information on how to keep all the pistons firing properly, please refer below to Sperm Count.
The sperm begin their lives in two glands located in the scrotal sac, directly beneath the penis. Initially spermatozoa cross the testis and the efferent ducts to rapidly pass into the epididymis where they are stored. Sperm resides in the caput (or head), then the corpus (or body) and finally in the cauda (or tail) of the epididymis. As sperm navigate to the epididymis they change significantly to become motile, change shape and undergo physical alterations. Once located in the epididymis they stay and grow into maturity until they are ready for discharge then are mixed with semen and “released”.
During the growth phase of these future fertilizing “warriors”, a gland known as the anterior pituitary produces hormones that put hair on men’s chest (FSH) and the manly voice in their throat (LH), as well as all those other characteristics that make men more distinguishable from women.
Sperm Delivery
Once the spermatozoa are ready to get out into the world, they move along to the vans deferens and then hook up with the urethra. Along the route to the seminal fluid (that serves as a vehicle for the sperm) it gets some key ingredients added to it. The seminal vesicles add fructose (sugar) and prostaglandins to the sperm; together they promote and regulate the sperm’s health while in transition. The prostate secretes a non-acidic fluid that gives semen its colour, and the Cowper’s gland produces a mucus-like fluid that acts as a lubricant.
The male body also has a system of neutralizing the acidity of any potential urine that may remain in the urethra. All these different fluids and sperm make up what is known as semen, which is ejaculated out of the body through a series of soft muscular movements that are initiated during arousal and subsequent stimulation. As the body approaches a state of orgasm, marking the release of sperm in semen, the muscles that control the prostate, urethra and testicles all contract. They lift the scrotum and all the muscles force the sperm out through the urethra at almost 45 km/h. This whole process takes about 3 to 10 seconds, though this amount of time tends to decrease over a man’s lifetime.
Theories also suggest that the contractions associated with female orgasms pull sperm from the vagina to the cervix, where it’s in a better position to reach the egg. Sperm, in the vagina, can only survive about six hours due to the acidic vaginal secretions. The cervical mucus present when ovulation is near, is more alkaline and more hospitable to sperm. The egg white consistency of the cervical mucus helps the sperm move more easily through the vagina to the cervix, increasing the chance that the sperm will be in the correct location for fertilization to occur…
The Final Leg
So how do sperm manage to negotiate their way from the vagina through the deep caverns of a woman’s cervix, tubes and ovum?
The fact is, that like a “moth to a flame” or a “fish to a lure”, the female body produces a “scent” that is either produced by the egg itself or perhaps more generally the woman’s reproductive tract. This process is known as “chemo attraction,” and makes the sperm swim aggressively; charging towards their destiny, and the lottery of procreation.
Upon their arrival at the egg, the sperm completely envelope it’s outer shell (known as the extra cellular coat).
After docking, the egg undergoes some fundamental changes that allow one sperm to break through the protective coat of the egg and merge, fusing into one.
Sometimes sperm that have undergone this chemical change can exhibit increased motility or hyperactivity, and with a little extra shake in their step continue on toward the nucleus.
The sperm now moves through the outer membrane.
From this point on the two nuclei merge, potentially creating of a new, and thoroughly unique organism.
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Male Reproductive System – ஆண் இனப்பெருக்க உறுப்பு,
Dec 19th, 2009 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
Male Reproductive System
Male Diagram
Penis A multipurpose organ responsible for sexual pleasure, reproduction, and the passage of both urine and semen the end of the penis is called the glans which contains the urethral opening that allows urine and semen to pass from the body in uncircumcised males the glans is covered by an additional layer of skin called the foreskin; main part called shaft; the raised ridge that separates the shaft from the glans is called the corona.
Scrotum
A loose pouch of skin covered with pubic hair that contains the testicles.
Testicles (or testes)
Are referred to as gonads and are reproductive glands; produce sperm and make sex hormones, mainly testosterone.
Prostate gland
The prostate sits on top of the bladder and secretes a milky fluid that is part of the ejaculate.
Seminal vesicles
A pair of tiny glands that lie above the prostate which produce about 70% of the seminal fluid, with the remainder produced by the prostate; seminal fluid combines with sperm.
Glans Head / Penis
The most sensitive area of the penis. Although a great place to stimulate, it can be very sensitive, so you may want to start slow with it until you know what he likes.
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Female Reproductive System – பெண் இனப்பெருக்க உறுப்பு
Dec 19th, 2009 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
Female Reproductive System
The female sexual organs are both internal and external. The clitoris, mons pubis, inner and outer lips, and the vaginal opening are external, and together are known as the vulva.
Clitoris
Like the penis, it contains sensitive nerve endings and becomes erect and filled with blood during stimulation; has no reproductive function.
Fallopian Tubes
Fallopian tubes are very narrow; extend from the top sides of the uterus; the path along which eggs travel from the ovaries.
G-Spot
The exact location sparks great debate. There’s no consensus on where to find it. However, many researchers say it’s the glandular tissue around the urethra (found behind the female pubic bone, about two inches inside the front of the vagina).
Labium Majora
The outer lips on both sides of the vaginal opening and are covered with pubic hair.
Labium Minora
The inner lips are hairless and folded, and lie between the outer lips and run along the edge of the vagina.
Mons Pubis
The mons pubis is a rounded pad of tissue that lies on top of the pubic bone and is covered with pubic hair.
Ovaries
Ovaries are roughly the size of almonds; sit on each side of the uterus; produce eggs and female sex hormones, oestrogen and progesterone.
Urethra
It is about 1 ½ inches long, this leads from the bladder to the exterior, and is the passage through which urine is eliminated. It is just in front of the vagina.
Uterus
It looks like an upside-down pear and is about the size of your fist; main function is to hold and feed a developing fetus; the cervix is the tiny donut-shaped neck of the uterus that lies at the top of the vagina and is the part a PAP smear is taken from; the inner layer of the uterus called endometrium, which is what is discarded during menstruation.
Vagina
A passageway about 3 to 4 inches (8 to 10 centimetres) long; begins with the vaginal opening at the bottom, and connects to the cervix at the top. Also known as the birth canal.
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Sexual Terms and Theire Explanations
Dec 19th, 2009 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
A
Abortion – The surgical procedure to terminate a pregnancy in its early stages
Active – The person who takes the male or aggressive role in a sexual relationship
Adultery – Sexual intercourse between two people when one or both parties are married to someone else
Affair – A love affair or sexual relationship that is illicit or secret
A-hole – The anus
Amateur – A girl who indulges in sexual intercourse frequently without pay usually with several men
Ambisextrous – Bi-sexual
Anal Coitus – sex in the rectum
Anal Eroticism – Sexual sensitivity in the anus or rectum
Anal Fetish – A preoccupation with or preference for the anus or rectum
Anal Intercourse – The introduction of any foreign body into he anus by another person for sexual relations
Andrin – The hormones produced by the male sex glands
Anus – The opening of the rectum
Aphrodisiac – ingested substance that increases the sexual appetite
Arc of Erection – The angle at which the penis extends from the body when aroused
Areola – The brownish or pinkish area of flesh immediately surrounding the nipple of the breasts
Around the World – The act of kissing the entire body from one end to the other as a prelude for other sexual activity
Artificial Insemination – Impregnating artificially by injecting semen into the uterus by means of a syringe
B
Back Door – The anus or rectum
Balls – The testicles
Bang – To copulate
Beat Off – To perform manual masturbation of the penis
Behind – The buttocks
Bestiality – Sexual relations with animals
Bi-sexual – An individual who takes part in sexual activity with both sexes
Bitch – A woman or girl who is promiscuous
Blast Off – To experience orgasms
Blowjob – The act of performing oral sex on a male
Blue Balls – Pain in the testicles from lack of ejaculation
Bondage – The practice of sexual domination of a sado-masochist quality, including restraints, humiliation, punishment, torture etc..
Bone – The erect penis
Boobs – The female breasts
Bordello – House of prostitution
Box – The vagina
Breasts – Either of two milk-secreting, glandular organs on the chest of a woman; the human mammary gland
Briar Patch – The pubes
Broad – Any girl or young woman
Brothel – A house of prostitution
Browning – To perform anal intercourse
Buck Naked – Completely naked
Bum – The buttocks
Bunghole – The anus
Burn – To infect someone with a venereal disease
Bush – Pubic hair of either sex especially if it’s thick or coarse; often more associated with female pubes
Bush Dinner – Cunnilingus
Bust – Female breasts
Butch – A lesbian who is very masculine in traits and appearance
Buttocks – The rump formed by the two protuberances behind the hips on which human beings sit
Button – The clitoris
C
Cabbage – The vagina
Cake – The vagina
Cake Eater – A cunnilinguist
Cake Shop – A house of prostitution
Call Girl – A prostitute
Cane – The penis in a state of erection
Canned Goods – A virgin
Canoe Inspector – A gynaecologist
Carnal – Relating to physical and especially sexual appetites
Casanova – An adventurous lover and seducer of women
Castration – Surgical procedures performed upon the testicles to make the reproductive glands inoperable
Cat House – A house of prostitution
Celibacy – The state of being unmarried and of living a life with no sexual relations
Cervix – The opening to the uterus or womb at the far end of the vagina
Cancroid -A small ulcer usually occurring on the genitals – very infectious
Charleys – The testicles
Cheat – To be unfaithful to one’s spouse or regular sex partner
Cheeks – The fleshy portion of the buttocks
Cherries – the female nipples
Cherry – The hymen in virgin women
Circumcision – Surgical removal of the foreskin of the penis
Circus – An orgy
Clap – Gonorrhoea
Cleavage – The valley which separates the female breasts
Climax – Orgasm
Clitoral Stimulation – Direct manipulation or rubbing of the clitoris using any means
Clitoridotomy – Female circumcision
Clitoris – The principle organ of sexual sensation in the female. It is shaped like a small peak and located just above the vaginal entrance beneath the labia minora. Like the penis of a male, the clitoris enlarges when stimulated
Closet Dyke – An active female homosexual who puts her true character in hiding
Closet Queen – See Closet Dyke
Cock – The penis
Cock Eater – One who performs oral sex on a male
Cocksucker – Anyone who performs oral sex on a male
Cock Teaser – One who excites a male without carrying on to actual sex relations
Cohabit – To live, sleep and have sexual relations as a man and wife
Coitus – Sexual intercourse
Come – To have an orgasm or reach a sexual climax
Comings – Semen
Conception – The uniting of semen and ovum during intercourse; impregnation
Concubine – A mistress
Concurrent Climax – A simultaneous climax or orgasm between two partners
Condom – A prophylactic; A flexible sheath, usually made of thin rubber or latex, designed to cover the penis during sexual intercourse for contraceptive purposes or as a means of preventing sexually transmitted diseases
Contraceptive – A device, drug, or chemical agent that prevents conception
Cookie – The female or male genitalia
Coosie – The vagina
Cop a Cherry – To copulate with a virgin
Cop a Feel – To fondle a person without necessarily continuing with other more explicit sexual activity
Copulation – Sexual intercourse in a conventional manner, the male inserts his penis into the vagina
Corona – The ridge of skin which forms the base of the penis and separates the head from the shaft
Cosset – To fondle and caress lovingly and with physical intimacy
Courtesan – A very high class of prostitute or kept woman
Crab Lice – Very small vermin which infest the pubic areas of human beings and are passed on to others through sexual intercourse
Cream – Semen ejaculated in intercourse
Crotch – The genital area of the pelvis
Crud – Anything that is dirty and dried
Cruise – To look over perspective love partners
Cunnilingus – Oral sex performed on the female vagina
Cunt – The vagina; A derogatory designation for any female
Cunt Lapper – One who practices cunnilingus
D
Daisy Chain – A group sex activity in which there is a linking of several people who are connected sexually with each other for the purpose of achieving orgasms
Dead Stick – A penis which is either permanently or temporarily incapable of an erection
Debauchery – Overindulgence in sexual pleasures
Defile – To rape or otherwise violate a woman who is still a virgin
Defloration – The act of taking away a female’s virginity
Degenerate – A person whose abnormalities go way beyond the average actions of heterosexual or homosexual intercourse
Dermophiliac – A leather fetishist
Derriere – The backside or buttocks
Deviate – A sex pervert of any kind
Diaphragm – A contraceptive device consisting of a thin flexible disk, usually made of rubber that is designed to cover the uterine cervix to prevent the entry of sperm during sexual intercourse
Dick – The penis
Dick Dip – The simple act of copulation
Dick taster – One who engages in oral sex with a male
Diddle – To perform masturbation
Dildo – An artificial penis used by a female to perform masturbation
Dirty Barrel – A penis or vagina infected with a venereal disease
Discipline -Punishment intended to correct or train used in masochist-sadist practices
Dishonourable Discharge – An act of masturbation by the male, particularly when he had been greatly aroused by a girl who will not submit to sexual intercourse
Dissolute – Free of any sexual restraints
Dong – The penis
Don Juan – A type of lover who enjoys feeling victory in seduction more than the sensual pleasure
Douche – The cleaning process of the vagina by use of a spray attachment
Drag – The wearing of clothing of the opposite sex
Drag Queen – A female impersonator
Dry Run/Fuck – The act of rubbing pelvises with a female while fully clothed. The practice might result in an actual orgasm
Dusters – The testicles
Dyke – A female that assumes the masculine role in a lesbian relationship
E
Easy Mark – A woman who will enter a sexual relationship without much persuasion
Effeminate – Feminine in appearance and/or in actions
Ejaculation – The forceful discharge of semen through the urethra of the penis, which determines the moment of orgasm in males.
Emasculation – Castration
Erection – The firm and enlarged condition of a body organ or part when the erectile tissue surrounding it becomes filled with blood, especially such a condition of the penis or clitoris
Erogenous – Responsive or sensitive to sexual stimulation arousing sexual desire
Eros – The Greek god of love
Erotic – Tending to arouse sexual desire or concerning sexual love
Exhibition – A sex orgy or circus, usually a semi-private affair that one must pay to see
Exhibitionist – One who likes to display their body in the nude, particularly the genitals, in public or before a group
Exotic – A stripper or other dancer who does a strip tease or other suggestive interpretive dance in a minimum of costume or one fitted to the configuration of the body
F
Fag – A male homosexual
Fairy – A male homosexual
Family Jewels – The male testicles
Fanny – The buttocks [USA] The Vagina [UK]
Feel Up – To manipulate female’s erogenous areas while embracing or petting
Feel My Pulse – A man’s invitation to his love partner to grasp his penis and thus gauge his passion
Fellare – Fellatio
Fellatio – Oral sex on the male member effected by introducing the penis into the mouth and sucking on the organ while moving the head up and down to emulate the motions of copulation and continuing to the point of orgasm
Fem – The passive female in a homosexual relationship. Opposite of Dyke
Female Domination – A sex practice whereby the man desires to be completely dominated by his female partner
Fetish – Sexual devotion to a particular object or part of the body. This may be any portion of the body or some inanimate thing such as a piece of clothing
Finger – To manipulate a female’s vagina with the fingers
Flaccid – Denoting the state of the penis when limp
Flagellation – The propensity for sexual satisfaction from whipping or being whipped
Flang – The corona of the penis
Flesh Peddler – A pimp
Fleshpot – A red light district or general area where prostitutes hang out
Flute – A male homosexual
Fly Jockey – A man who copulates without removing his trousers through the fly of his pants
Fool Around – To engage in sexual foreplay with no serious intent of intercourse
Foreplay – The love play leading up to intercourse
Foreskin – The loose fold of skin that covers the glans of the penis at birth
Fornication – Sexual intercourse between partners who are not married to each other
Fraternize – To keep intimate company with a person
Freak – A person who desires sex in bizarre and unusual ways
Freebie – Sexual conquest without monetary cost
Free Show – A quick peek at a girl’s thighs or breasts as she adjusts a stocking or bra strap, crosses her legs etc..
French – To perform oral sex
French Kiss – To kiss passionately with the lips parted and tongues exploring
Fresh Meat – A female virgin or one who is relatively new to intercourse
Frig – To finger the female genitalia
Frottage – The practice of rubbing up against someone for sexual gratification
Fruitcake – A male homosexual
Fuck – The act of copulation
Fur – pubes of the vagina
G
The Gadget – The penis
Gallant – A refined gentleman
Gang Bang – A party or orgy in which two or more males takes turns having intercourse with the same girl
Garden – The female genital region
Gay – Referring to either a male or female homosexual
Genitalia – The surface organs of reproduction on both the male and the female
Genitals – See Genitalia
Get It Up – To achieve an erect penis
Get Your Rocks Off – Males achieving orgasm
Giggle Stick – The penis
Gigolo – A man who profits from his association with women. This type is usually very good looking and has plenty of sex appeal
Ginger – A prostitute who makes a habit of robbing her customers
Give Head – To perform oral sex on a male
Glans Clitorides – The head of the clitoris
Glans Penis – The head of the penis
Globes – The female breasts
Glory Hole – A hole, which has been cut in the wall of a public toilet to another adjoining toilet and used by homosexuals to observe or interact with someone else
Gobbler – A person who enjoys oral sex with a male
Go Down – To perform oral sex on a person’s genitals
Golden Shower – A method of perverted gratification of a sexual desire attained by urinating on your love partner or being urinated upon
Gonads – The testicles or the ovaries, which are primary sex glands in the male and female for producing future generations
Gonga – The anus
Gonorrhoea – A sexually transmitted disease caused by gonococcus bacteria that affects the mucous membrane chiefly of the genital and urinary tracts and is characterized by an acute purulent discharge and painful or difficult urination, though women often have no symptoms
Goolies – The testicles
Goose – To playfully tickle someone from behind usually aiming for the rear end
Grapefruits – Extremely large female breasts
Grass – The pubic area in males or females
Greek Love – Anal intercourse
Grinder – A stripper or other entertainer bumping her pelvis
Group Masturbation – Three or more persons who practice masturbation on each other or themselves in a group party
Group Sex – An exhibition or orgy among couples who engage in either simple acts of copulation or perverted sexual encounters with other couples or singles taking turns at both performing and watching the other performers
G-string – A small material covering only the female pubic area, which is secured by thin straps around the hips
Gun – The penis
Gynaecologist – A physician specializing in the care and treatment of the female genitalia and reproductive tract
H
Hair Pie – The Vagina as an object of cunnilingus
Hammer – The penis
Hand Job – Masturbation when it is received from the hands of another
Hanky-Panky – An immoral or illicit sexual activity
Hard On – An erection indicating the state in the male where the penis is actually hard
Hard Up – The term is primarily used by men and refers to a lack of a sex partner
Harem – A collection of lovers, which are available to be used by one person
Harlot – A prostitute
Head – One who performs oral sex
Headlights – Large female breasts
Hedonism – A way of life in which one gratifies all sexual and sensual desires of the individual without moral restraint
Hermaphrodite – A person who is born with both male and female genitals although one set is almost always incompletely developed
Hershey Highway – The rectum
Heterosexual – A person who prefers sexual intercourse only with members of the opposite sex
Homo – A homosexual
Homosexual – One with a complete sexual attraction for only members of their own sex
Hooker – A prostitute
Horizontal exercise – Intercourse
Horny – Passionate and needing sexual intercourse
Horse Around – To play, cuddle, fondle and pet up to the point of intercourse
Hot – An indication of the body temperature during moments of great passion
Hung – Referring to size of the male genitalia and used particularly to denote a penis size of immense proportions
Hustle – To seek customers when one is a prostitute
Hymen – The fold of membrane partly covering the orifice of the virgin vagina in childhood and adolescence but usually broken during the first act of intercourse by the insertion of the penis
I
Immoral – Unlawful or improper relations of a sexual nature
Impotency – Incapable of intercourse as associated with the male who is incapable of achieving an erection due to age, stress, physical or psychological problems
Impregnation – The uniting of the male semen with the female ovum and onset of pregnancy
Incest – Sexual relations between members of an immediate family other than the husband and wife
Indecent – Often refers to exposing one’s genital parts in public
Intercourse – The Sexual joining together of two partners in the act of copulation
Invert – A homosexual
Iron – A male prostitute
J
Jack Off – Males performing masturbation
Jerk Off – To perform masturbation of the male member
Jerk The Snake – To perform masturbation of the male member
Jism – Semen
Joy Stick – The penis
K
Kama – Great sexual passion (Hindu love god)
Keister – the buttocks
Kicks – Sexual Thrills
Kinky – Sexually abnormal or perverse
Knob – The penis
Knobs – The female breasts
Knockers – The female breasts, especially if large and sexually stimulating in appearance
Knock Up – To impregnate, make pregnant
Knot – The corona of the penis
L
Labia Majora – The large outer lips that mark the entrance to the vagina
Labia Minora – The smaller, inner lips at the entrance to the vagina which are formed just below the labia majora
Lap It – To perform oral sex on the female
Lavender Boy – A male homosexual
Lay – The act of copulation or other intercourse
Lesbian – A female homosexual
Lesbo – A lesbian
Libido – Sexual need, hunger or appetite
Lick – To perform oral sex on a female
Lips – 1.The fleshy folds which form the opening of the mouth on the human face and are secondary erogenous zone 2. The labia majora and labia minora of the female vulva
Little Brother – The penis
Little Sister – The vagina
Load – The product of a single ejaculation
Lollipop – The vagina or penis as an object of oral intercourse
Lust – Sexual desire or passion, particularly when odd a heightened or extreme nature
M
Madam – The proprietors or manager of a house of prostitution
Mammae or Mammary Glands – The breasts, which are capable of producing and secreting milk
Mammary Intercourse – Intercourse performed by penile contact with the breasts of the lover partner
Manual Exercises – Masturbation
Masochism – Desire for maltreatment as a means of sexual gratification
Masturbation – The practice of arriving at orgasm through manual manipulation or other frictional contact with the genitalia without copulation
Matinee – An afternoon session of copulation or other love making
Meat – The penis
Melons – The female breasts
Menopause – The change of life in women during which menstruation ceases and other mental and physical changes may occur
Menstruation – A periodic vaginal flow of bloody mass and liquid occurring about once a month and lasting 3-5 days which carries out with it the unfertilized ovum from the uterus. It is immediately after the period that the female is normally the most receptive to sexual activity
Mess Around – To cheat sexually on one’s spouse or love partner. 2.To engage in foreplay short of actual intercourse
Middle Leg – The penis
Misfire – Accidental ejaculation during love play prior to intercourse
Mons Veneris – Pubic mound
Mowed Lawn – Descriptive of the vagina when the pubic mound is shaved
Muff Diver – One who performed oral sex on the female
Muffins – Small breasts
Multiple Climaxes – A series of several successive orgasms experienced by many females during a single act of coitus
Mutual Masturbation – Group masturbation whereby two or more people of the same or different sexes either masturbate themselves or each other in concert and attempt to achieve orgasm at the same time
Mysophilia – The love of things filthy and unclean
N
Narcissism – Pleasure or desire stimulated by one’s own body
Nates – The buttocks
Naughty – Indecent; improper
Neck – To kiss while embracing
Necrophilia – Sexual love of the dead including actual intercourse with corpses
Ninnies – The female breasts
Nipples – The small projection near the centre of the mammary gland containing the outlets of the milk ducts through which young mammals obtain milk from the adult female; a teat
Nookie – Copulation
Nubbies – Female breasts
Nude – A naked person
Nymphomaniac – female with excessive and insatiable desire for sexual activity (nympho)
O
Obscene – Offensive to the average person
Old Dirt Road – The anus/rectum
Old Fashioned Way – Missionary position
One Night Stand – A one time sexual affair between two people that will probably never see each other again
Oral Contraceptive – A pill, typically containing oestrogen or progesterone that inhibits ovulation and thereby prevents conception. Also called birth control pill
Oral Sex – Sexual intercourse where the mouth of one sex partner is used in connection with the genitalia of the other to produce orgasm
Orgasm – The end-pleasure or climax
Orgy – A private party where uninhibited group sex is practiced
Ovaries – The reproductive glands in the female located within the pelvic cavity near the uterus, which produce the ovum or egg, which is fertilized by the male sperm during impregnation
Ovum – The female egg of reproduction, which is fertilized by the male semen during copulation
P
Pedophilia – Erotic love for a child by an adult
Pair – The female breasts
Pansy – An obvious male homosexual
Park – To park in a car at a secluded spot for the purpose of necking or actual intercourse
Parlour House – A house of prostitution
Passion – Sexual desire or excitement
Passive – Descriptive of the person who takes the feminine or passive role in a sexual act or relationship
Pecker – The penis
Peep Show – Any performance by scantily attired girls or strippers
Peeping Tom – A voyeur who specializes in watching women undress from an unobserved spot
Pencil – A very small penis
Penilinctus – Oral sex on the male sex organ
Penis – The primary sex organ of the male. The shaft like projection from the pit of the pelvis which is used in sexual intercourse. Generally a soft muscle when relaxed, the penis hardens during sexual stimulation as the blood rushes to the organ causing it to become erect
Penis Erectus – The condition of the penis at high sexual excitement
Penis P
Top Ten Things about G-Spot
Dec 19th, 2009 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
1. The G-Spot is not buried somewhere deep within the depths of the vagina in some nook or cranny. You should n’t have to send out a search party to find it. The location of the G-Spot can vary from lady to lady, with some having theirs closer to the entrance of the vagina and some having theirs farther back, but just follow this technique and you should n’t have any problems finding it. It is best to do this in a highly aroused state. It can be difficult to find when not aroused, as it is usually a small area that becomes quite enlarged during arousal. Take a lubed finger, whichever is most comfortable. Turn your palm up. Now insert the finger barely inside the vagina, staying on the “ceiling” of the vagina. Now very slowly move the finger deeper into the vagina, being sure to stay against the “ceiling”. You will soon find the pubic bone. You can’t miss it. Once you find the pubic bone, move back just a little bit farther. Again, be sure to stay on the “ceiling”. Move just behind the pubic bone and feel around for a small area about the size of a bean, or so. It has a different texture than the surrounding area. I like to describe the texture as being similar to corduroy, as it has ridges. I have also heard it described as feeling spongy. That will be the G-spot.
2. The G-Spot was named in 1944, after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg.
3. Try various means of stimulating the G-Spot. Try rubbing little circles, try moving your finger back and forth (like you are telling someone to “come here”), try pushing against it, and try tapping on it. Be sure to get your lady’s feedback to see which method she prefers.
4. Some ladies are going to have a greater reaction to G-Spot stimulation than other ladies. Everyone is different, remember? For some ladies, it produces little or no result. Other ladies claim an earth-shattering out of this world orgasm that resonates from deep within the body and takes them to euphoria with a side excursion to nirvana and bliss.
5. It is true for some women that G-Spot play may become more likely to result in orgasm over a period of weeks or months after first starting to experiment with it. So, if you see little or no results at first, give it some time. As the saying goes, if at first you don’t succeed, try and try again.
6. Some experts claim that G-Spot orgasm intensity may be directly related to PC muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises, like Kegels.
7. Anytime you are stimulating the G-Spot, your lady may feel the urge to urinate. This is normal due to the fact that the G-Spot is right up against the bladder. The G-Spot is sometimes referred to as the urethral sponge, as it is the muscle underlying the urethra.
8. Sometimes when you stimulate the G-Spot, your lady may actually ejaculate. This is very normal. It doesn’t happen every time and it doesn’t happen to every lady. If it does happen, celebrate it. Don’t make her feel ashamed, guilty, or embarrassed. Reassure her that it is normal and tell her you are glad that it happened because it is evidence that you really did a great job of pleasuring her!
9. The G-Spot is not in the vaginal wall itself, but felt through it, and may therefore require more pressure to stimulate it, according to Dr. Beverly Whipple.
10. Some experts believe the G-Spot may actually be the roots of the clitoris crisscrossing the urethral sponge. These experts refer to the G-Spot as the “clitoral cluster”.
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The Most Common Mistakes Men Make In Bed-Women’s view
Dec 18th, 2009 by Dr.Senthil Kumar
The Most Common Mistakes Men Make In Bed-Women’s view
Settling For Mediocrity/Not Making An Effort:
“Is your relationship in neutral? Many men have the impression that as long as they are not yelling at their wives, beating them, cheating on them, or leaving huge messes around the house, they must be good husbands. All that means is that they aren’t bad husbands. They are probably just average husbands. Instead of not just yelling at their wives, husbands should make an effort to say lots of wonderful things to their wives. Instead of not just beating his wife, a husband should make certain he often lovingly touches her: stroking her hair, lightly kissing her neck, gently massaging her shoulders, kindly rubbing her feet, and giving her light kisses on her cheek, nose, ears, forehead, and of course, lips. A man should only not cheat on his wife, he should passionately seduce her. Not being a total slob isn’t bad, but helping your wife with the chores is even better. Giving her a whole day or week off from her usual chores and you doing them for her is best. Men should never settle for being average. If your relationship has been in neutral, it’s time for you to move into first gear.”
If you find that you have fallen into the mediocrity trap, then you probably shouldn’t be too surprised that your sex life has suffered as a result. Here are some ways to avoid mediocrity and rise to the top.
One great way to avoid mediocrity and keep sex spicy hot is to learn how to make love outside of the bedroom. No, I’m not talking about making love on the kitchen counter or dining room table. I’m talking about making love with your woman in a non-sexual way. If she regularly prepares supper, do you ever ask her if she needs help? If she is the one that normally does the dishes, do you regularly do them instead? Do you help her around the house? Do you touch her in non-sexual ways? Do you ever kiss her outside the bedroom? I promise you, the better you learn to make love to her outside of the bedroom, the better she will make love with you inside the bedroom. If she is resentful for the things you do (or don’t do) outside the bedroom, how can she give herself to you fully and excitedly in the bedroom? Something to think about, don’t you think?
Do you ever touch her outside the bedroom? One of the biggest mistakes you can make is to only touch you lady when you want sex. She will pick up on this and likely start to resent you for it. Instead, be sure to touch her often in a non-sexual way. For instance, while she is cooking or brushing her teeth in the mirror, go up behind her and give her a big hug. Or, if she is working on the computer or reading a book, go up behind her and give her a small kiss on the neck or a backrub. Pay attention. There are many opportunities throughout your day together to do this for her. She will feel appreciated and she will love you for it.
Do you ever kiss her – REALLY kiss her?
I say anything under 10 seconds doesn’t even qualify as a kiss. Sure, there will be times when you have to dash off to the store before it closes and a peck will have to do, but try to make those times the exception rather than the rule.
Do you spend time together?
Make a conscious effort to make quality time for your partner every day – even if it’s ten minutes of snuggling before going to sleep. Most women need to make a connection everyday. Take a walk together after dinner. Have a laugh at the supermarket. Clean or wash the car together. Have fun doing whatever you do together. Take a class. Join a club. Support a candidate. Plan a getaway. Tickle. Be Goofy. Just make sure you spend quality time with your lady – everyday. She will love you for it.
Create rituals that involve sharing time. No matter how busy you are, make the time. Have one night a week set aside to watch videos in bed. Go for a special brunch every Sunday. Read the Sunday paper together in bed. Make her breakfast every Saturday morning. You get the idea. Rituals are an important part of a relationship. They provide fun, anticipation, security, and mostly intimacy.
Do you talk to her?
Do you listen to her – REALLY listen? Ask her about her day and then listen to her. Don’t try to solve all of her problems. Just sympathize with her, tell her you love her, and let her know that you are her biggest fan.
Do you compliment her?
Do you build her up and brag on her in front of others?
Do you help her out with chores, the kids, and housework? Does she feel overburdened?
When is the last time you called her just to say, “I love you”?
When is the last time the two of you went somewhere romantic?
Take her away for the weekend. Don’t expect sex. Don’t ask for it. Just work on rediscovering what it was about each other that made you fall in love in the first place. The sex will likely follow.
Not Shaving:
If you have a rough beard, moustache, or goatee, it can really hurt your lady when you kiss her, suck her breasts, or give her oral sex. You can test the roughness of your facial hair by rubbing the inside of your wrist or the back of your hand against your moustache, beard, or goatee. If it’s rough against the back of your hand, just think about how it must feel to her soft, delicate tissue. A close shave or using hair conditioner on your beard should take care of this problem.
Poor Personal Hygiene:
Some ladies have complained that a few guys need more help with their personal hygiene. Make sure you brush your teeth, use deodorant, and cut your toenails, they say. Some ladies really like nice cologne, too. While our natural body scent contains pheromones, nobody wants to be with someone that lets their natural scent get out of control.
Bragging About How Good He Is In Bed:
“Another big mistake for a guy to do is brag about how good he is in bed. I had a guy do that to me one evening. I asked him how good he was at masturbation. He said he was great at masturbation. I told him I was glad to hear that, because that’s what he would be doing tonight. Then I got up and left.” If you are good in bed, guys, she will find out soon enough. Bragging about it is not only unnecessary, it can turn her off. Being confident is great. Being braggadocios is not.
Not Giving Clear Insight Into Their Sexual Desires And Needs:
Oftentimes, men aren’t the best communicators inside the bedroom – or outside of the bedroom, for that matter. Many women would like to know about our sexual needs and desires. Learn to open up and communicate better and you may take your lovemaking to a whole new level.
No (Or Not Enough) Kissing and Foreplay Before The Main Event:
One lady commented, “Is this a race? An 8 second rodeo? Slow down, Cowboys!” Another complained, “He thinks foreplay is each of us taking our clothes off and lying down.” Foreplay isn’t optional. It isn’t a luxury to indulge in only when you have enough time – especially when you plan to engage in intercourse. The woman needs time for her vagina to prepare itself for penetration. Give her the time to prepare, and she will enjoy the experience on a higher level – and so will you. Instead of diving right for her crotch, spend some time kissing her, touching her, and talking to her.
This will help build anticipation and desire. Besides, studies have shown that after 21 minutes or longer of foreplay, 92.3% of women will orgasm at some point during your lovemaking session. Not enough foreplay makes it seem like you don’t care about pleasing her and only care about your own pleasure. If your lady knows that you will take great care of her during your lovemaking, she is more likely to want to engage in it more often. That makes sense, doesn’t it?
Too Much Tongue:
“Don’t force it. I like tongue, but not down my throat.” I’ve read this complaint from a lot of different sources. It seems that it’s a pretty common one. Don’t force your tongue down her throat like you are trying to unclog a drainpipe. That’s just not romantic. Try being soft, slow, and gentle. Try holding her face in your hands while you kiss her. Try stroking her hair or her cheek.
Giving Hickeys:
While a lot of women really like to have their necks gently suckled, no woman wants to have to wear turtle neck sweaters for a few weeks to hide a hickey that you gave her. If you are going to give hickeys, do so on the areas where clothing will definitely cover them up, and with her permission only.
Ignoring The Other Parts Of Her Body:
A woman has more parts to her body than just her two breasts and her vagina. There are many other areas of her body. Some have been touched less than a leprous nun in solitary confinement due to the fact that a lot of men just go right for the breasts and the vagina and forget about everything else. Spend some time touching her and getting to know her body without touching her breasts or vagina for awhile. She will appreciate the attention and will know that you are a man who truly knows how to please a woman.
Keep Your Hands Moving
“Touch me. Don’t rest your hands as if you are tired or something. Move them over my skin all the time.” Ladies don’t want you to appear bored. Keep your hands moving. Stimulate her in as many ways as possible. If your hands need a rest, then try holding her hands with yours. Many women really like it when you hold their hand during lovemaking, as it can help you connect better with her.
Zigzag Technique:
As surprising as it may seem at first, a woman’s skin is her largest sex organ. As a result, anywhere that she has skin can become an erogenous zone, depending on how you touch her.
Take your fingertips in a zigzag motion and run them all over her body. The reason that a zigzag motion works better than a straight line is because with the straight line, the little nerves of her skin in the path of your straight line “know” they are going to be touched. With a zigzag motion, the little nerves “hope” they will be touched. This produces a different, more pleasant effect. Try it on your own arm and feel the difference.
Massaging Her Too Roughly:
Women oftentimes think that a man’s touch is too rough. You have the right idea if you are giving her a massage as a part of foreplay, but you can ruin an all-good thing by being too rough with her. Be gentle unless you have her permission to be rougher.
Undressing To Early:
Undressing too early is not the best move. This can signal your lady that you expect sex. Even if you do think the evening will turn sexual, it may be best to wait until things get a little hot and heavy and she starts to peel your shirt or pants off, first.
Taking Your Pants Off First:
I have read from many different sources that women believe a man in only his socks and underwear is a man at his worst. Be sure to take your socks off before your pants so your lady never has to see you in a less than flattering light.
Nudging Her Head Down For Oral Sex:
Not a good plan. If you want oral sex from her, it’s best to ask her. Don’t nudge her head toward your penis. Many women said they don’t like this.
Using Your Hand To Move Her Head Up And Down While She Gives You Oral Sex:
This was by far the most common response that I received from my surveys. Apparently, women HATE this. You can rub your fingers through her hair, stroke her cheek, or rub her back, but NEVER, EVER force her head onto your penis with your hand.
Thrusting While She Gives You Oral Sex:
Many women don’t like it when you thrust while they are giving you oral sex. They said they prefer you lie still while they move their head up and down. They can better control the depth and speed that way. Some women may not mind it, though. Your best bet is to ask your lady and see what she says.
Not Warning Her When You Are About To Cum While She Gives You Oral Sex:
This was another very popular response from the women who took my survey. Not every woman likes the taste of semen. Be sure to warn her when you are about to orgasm so she can choose what she would like to do with it. Many women commented that if a man doesn’t warn her first, he would never get more oral sex from her again.
No Kissing After Oral Sex:
“It really bugs me that he won’t kiss me after I give him a blow job.” That’s a great way to make sure you never get oral sex again, guys. If she is going to be so kind and loving to give you oral sex, the least you can do is not make her feel like a leper afterwards. Give her a big kiss and let her know how much you love her and appreciate the pleasure that she gives you.
Not Offering To Return Sexual Favours:
This was another pretty common survey response. It seems that some men expect to receive oral sex from their women, but don’t want to return the favour. Another interesting note is that I remember most of these guys as being past partners – not current ones. Hmmmm…I wonder why!?
Poor Manual Dexterity:
Fumbling when trying to remove her bra or panties just doesn’t cut it.
Unfastening a Bra Tip:
I have to get something off my chest and keep you abreast of the situation. If you are like a lot of guys when it comes to bras, and you are more likely to bust a finger than finger a bust when it comes to removing one of these booby traps, then this tip is for you. First, some basic bra knowledge. Most bras fasten in the back, although some fasten in the front, between the cups. Next, know what you are dealing with. Borrow one of your lady’s bras and examine the mechanics of the fasteners. Practice fastening it and unfastening it. Wait until you are alone and sit down on the edge of your bed or in a chair with your thighs exposed. Now, wrap the bra around your thigh or thighs and fasten it with the hooks facing up. Now practice fastening and unfastening it again. When you get the hang of it, turn it on your leg so the hooks are face down and you have to do it without being able to see what you are doing. Now, you are ready for the next time you see your lady and it comes time to remove her bra. Be sure to use two hands. Don’t try to impress her with any one-hand tricks, unless you are very well practiced. Wrap you arms around her in a hug-like fashion. Grab each side of the bra clasps, one side with each hand. Fold the two sides together, pushing on one side and pulling on the other. It should come right open. Now remove the bra. Your lady will be far more impressed with a smooth removal than if you try to yank it off or whip it away.
As for her panties, John Gray does an incredible job of describing how to best remove a woman’s panties in his book, ‘Mars and Venus in the Bedroom’:
“A man should begin to touch between her legs only when he thinks she is ready. Sometimes it is good to first touch around the lining of the panties and gradually explores her vulva. It is very exciting for her if he doesn’t just suddenly pull down her panties. Instead, he may start to pull them down and then pull them back up a little higher. Instead of taking them off, he can begin touching her on the inside edge of her panties across the back, then the front, then along the edge down the front. Then he can put his fingers inside the edge between her legs. Once he has checked with a gentle, probing finger that she is moist, he can take off her panties. Or, instead of immediately pulling them off, he can once again delay pulling them down to convey the message that he is in control of his passions.
Even if his passion is mounting, he can take a long time. This restraint and control allow her to feel freer to release her inhibitions and let go of control. Instead of taking off her panties, he can reach around her buttocks and expose her bare bottom. He can begin to touch and stroke her buttocks and her inner thigh from behind. Eventually, he can take off her panties and begin stroking her inner thighs and circling her whole vulva.” -Mars and Venus in the Bedroom
Squeezing Her Breasts:
Most men squeeze a woman’s breasts like they squeeze the Charmin. A lot of women get tired of that. Stroke her breasts. Kiss them. Lick them. Caress them. Don’t just squeeze them really hard. Spend some time with her breasts. The average guy spends only 2-3 minutes per breast during a whole sexual encounter! Don’t you think your partner deserves more? Do you want to be like every other guy or do you want to stand out from the mediocre masses?
Some women aren’t interested in breast stimulation at all. While over 90% of women report that their partners stimulate their breasts either manually or orally during sexual activity, only 50% reported that they actually enjoy breast stimulation. The rest tolerate it because either their partner likes it or because their partner doesn’t realize that the women don’t enjoy it. Why not ask your lady what she prefers.
Biting And Twiddling Her Nipples:
Don’t clamp down on her nipples like you are going to bite them off. Nipples are sensitive. There will be some women who will really like that, but the majority of women will prefer you to be a little more gentle with their nipples. Again, your best bet is to ask. Also, stop rolling her nipples between your thumb and forefinger all the time, like you are trying to turn a radio dial to tune in a faint radio station. A little bit of that may be ok sometimes, but go for variety.
The more techniques you have in your repertoire, the better. And be sure to focus in on the entire breasts, not just the nipples. Besides, some experts claim that the nipple isn’t the most sensitive part of the breast, anyway. They suggest that the upper part of the breast from the 9:00 to the 3:00 position may be even more sensitive. See if this holds true for your lady. Also, don’t forget about the sides of the breast and the undersides.
Begging!
“He wanted me to do things I was NOT comfortable with, and after telling him a firm NO, he would start begging!” Guys, it’s ok to ask your lady to do something that may be a little kinky or out of the ordinary, but don’t keep begging her if she says no. Nagging her about it will only make matters worse. Besides, are you in this just for your own selfish pleasure, or is this supposed to be a physical expression of the love that you share with her? That’s something to think about. If you really love her, quit trying to make her do things she isn’t comfortable doing.
Too Impatient:
“Start slow. Turn me on before you jump me. As a matter of fact, make me BEG you before you jump me.” This is a big one that a lot of guys need to learn. When it comes to driving a car, most guys like to take the quickest, most direct route to their destination. That’s great, but when it comes to lovemaking, taking the most direct route to your destination (orgasm) is the quickest route to sexual dissatisfaction for your lady – and her dissatisfaction leads to less frequent sex for you! After all, why would she want to have sex with you very often if she already knows it will be unfulfilling for her? Instead of taking the quickest, most direct route to orgasm, learn to take the scenic route. That’s the route that will have your woman wanting to travel your sexual highway a lot more often. Spend a lot of time on foreplay. Spend time kissing her, touching her, and telling her why you love her. This is the fuel your woman needs in order to get the most out of your lovemaking.
The more foreplay you give her, the more turned on she will be and the more explosive her orgasms will be. My advice, and the advice of the lady who gave me the quote above, would be to get her so turned on that she begs you to make love with her. Then you know she is really ready for you and will enjoy the experience to the fullest. It’s up to you. You can race to a mediocre orgasm and have her rarely looking forward to sex with you, or you can take your time working up to an incredible orgasm and have her wanting you to work your expertise all the time.
ATTACKING THE CLITORIS.
For many women, direct stimulation of the clitoris can be uncomfortable and even painful, especially early in the lovemaking. Some women may need you to wait until they are really aroused before they’ll find direct clitoral stimulation pleasurable.
Some women can’t stand direct clitoral stimulation at all – even after arousal. They may need indirect stimulation. Your best bet is to ask your lady what she needs when it comes to stimulating her clitoris.
Not realizing That Many Women Need Clitoral Stimulation To Orgasm:
Many women cannot orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. If your lady is among these, it’s perfectly normal. In fact, only around 30% of women can orgasm from intercourse alone. The rest need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. Here are some ways to incorporate clitoral stimulation into intercourse:
She can manually stimulate her clitoris during intercourse.
You can manually stimulate her clitoris during intercourse.
Get either a vibrating egg or a vibrating bullet. You can purchase these at your local adult toy store or you can order them online. Now, turn on the bullet (or egg). Start with low speed, if you have a multi-speed model, and place it right against her clitoris. Now, enter her vaginally with your penis (use missionary position). Your body will hold the bullet (or egg) in place on her clitoris while you stroke in and out of her vagina. This way, she can receive the clitoral stimulation that she may need in order to orgasm during intercourse.
Read up on the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT). It places your body in a more advantageous position for clitoral stimulation.
Insert your penis into her vagina as far as it will go. Don’t move it in and out. Just grind your pelvis right up against her clitoris and keep grinding. You may need to lubricate her, first, as you want to pleasure her clitoris, not irritate it.
If you have ever watched a porno, you will see that most of the time, the two people involved only have physical contact at one point of the bodies – the genitals. Try some better coverage than that. Cover her like Deion Sanders covers a wide receiver. Put your body flat against hers, touching at as many points as possible without hurting her. A lot of women will really love the extra coverage and I promise you won’t get penalized for holding! It may also allow for better contact with the clitoris.
Using a long, narrow, silky scarf, place it’s midpoint behind your penis and testicles. Bring the ends around to the front, just above the base of your penis and tie them together firmly, but not painfully, in a large knot. The larger the knot, the better. You may even want to tie several knots to maximize the size of your knotted area. Be sure to leave the free ends at least a foot long. During missionary-position intercourse, your lady can grab the free ends of the scarf with her hands and pull back and forth on them to stimulate her clitoris with the knot.
When you are on top in the missionary position, instead of having your legs inside of hers, try putting them outside of hers. With her legs together, she will get more stimulation than normal and you are more likely to make contact with her clitoris as you thrust. You can still thrust the usual way, but a circular motion like you are stirring a drink with your penis really works well.
Another way to help provide clitoral stimulation during intercourse is to gently hold her butt cheeks apart during intercourse.
Use the “Clockwise, Counter Clockwise Technique” during intercourse. Insert your penis fully into her vagina. Now grind lustfully against each other. You grind in a clockwise motion while she grinds in a counter clockwise motion. This allows for terrific clitoral stimulation.
Not Listening or Paying Attention To Her Needs:
If she tells you to ease up a bit, or move a little to the left, or says something else to help give you direction and you don’t listen, then you not only aren’t going to give her the most pleasure possible, you also may frustrate her. Listen to her directions and follow them.
Being Inconsiderate:
“He keeps lying his shoulders down on my face so I can’t breathe. I told him a few times that I’m suffocating, but he doesn’t seem to get the message.” Again, guys, I’m going to have to ask you – are you in this for your own selfish pleasure or do you really love the lady you are with? You have to listen up. Pay attention to your lady and her signals, both verbal and non-verbal. Don’t zone out and only focus on your own pleasure. If you want to only focus on yourself, then get off of your lady and read up on some great masturbation techniques.
Inattention:
“He’s kind of clumsy and sometimes hurts me. When I groan with pain, he mistakes it for a groan of pleasure. The only time he ever noticed was when I screamed and almost jumped off the bed.” Reading this one, I can’t help but think this is the fault of both parties involved. I believe if the lady is uncomfortable, she has a responsibility to tell the guy in no uncertain terms that she is uncomfortable. Groans of pain can be mistaken for groans of pleasure. On the other hand, guys, you should be so tuned into your lady that you should know what she is feeling. You should also be talking to her. “Are you doing ok?”; “Are you comfortable?”; “Do you need anything?”; “How does that feel?”; “Are you enjoying yourself?”
Taking Direction Too Personally:
Several women mentioned that sometimes when they give us direction in the bedroom, such as asking us to ease up a bit, we take it too personally and get our feelings hurt as if we weren’t doing a good job. “If I told him I didn’t care for something he was doing to me in the bedroom, he’d start to whine and get his feelings hurt.” Don’t take direction personally, guys. Pay attention to it so you can learn how to better please your woman. Consider yourself lucky that you have a woman who will give direction. Would you rather have your woman say nothing, but secretly be uncomfortable with what you are doing to her?
Too Mechanical:
“You can sometimes tell when a guy has studied something to try to please a girl and he seems all mechanical and stuff, trying to remember everything step by step. Not cool! Go with the flow!” Learning new things to try in the bedroom can be extremely fun. Many ladies love that their men are always trying to keep things fresh by learning new things to try out. I have a word of caution for you, though. Women like the lovemaking to flow naturally. So, having a dry erase board next to the bed with step by step instructions for that new move you just read about is a horrible idea.
Your woman wants you focusing on her, not on trying to remember some silly move. Don’t get me wrong, new ideas are great. I completely enjoy learning new things to try out in the bedroom. I’m just suggesting you do your homework and learn the technique outside of the bedroom so that when it comes time to try it out on your lady, you can do so while completely focusing on her and not on trying to remember the technique.
Being Distracted During Lovemaking:
One lady commented, “Keeping the television on is very distracting. If it must be on, please switch it to a music channel.” Another complained, “Never say lets hurry up and get this over with, the game is about to come on.” Your lady must feel that there is nowhere else on Earth you would rather be and nothing else you would rather be doing right now than making love with her.
Signature Moves:
“The biggest mistake my past lovers have made is to assume that what worked on a previous lover (or lovers) to help them achieve an orgasm is what must work for me, too, even after I have tried to get through to them what DOES work for me. I believe it is my responsibility to let them know what does work for me, but it obviously doesn’t do any good if they are still going to insist on doing things the way they “know” is best.” Many guys have a signature move that they are really fond of.
Because they have had success with the move in the past, sometimes they may be guilty of focussing too much on it with a new girlfriend. No move works on every woman. Everyone is different, remember? Go ahead and try out those moves that have worked well for you in the past, or that great move your buddy said drove his girlfriend crazy. Just be sure to pay attention to what your girl’s moans and wiggles tell you about it. If she lies there like a bump on a log, grabs your hand to stop you, or pulls back from your touch, then try variations – harder, softer, faster, slower, etc.
If you find a variation that works for her, remember it – then you’ll already have a head start for next time. If you still get no response after the variations, move on to something else. I have heard women complain that some men are bound and determined to make their “signature move” work at all costs like they have a one track mind. Such behaviour can be frustrating and ruin the mood.
MENTIONING PAST LOVERS.
“The dumbest thing any man can do is talk about past lovers while out on a date, let alone in bed.” The last thing your lady wants to hear about is all of your past lovers. If you want her to feel special, you need to focus on her and not on your past lovers. Make her feel like she is the only woman in the world when she is with you.
Thrusting Too Hard Or Too Fast:
According to many ladies, when it comes to intercourse, one of the worst things you can do is thrust away right from the start like a rabbit in heat. Take your time. Start slow. Build up to faster thrusts, if that’s what the two of you like. Another one of the worst things you can do when it comes to intercourse is to thrust too hard, like a runaway jackhammer, right from the start.
Remember that as you thrust, your hipbone can dig into her stomach or thigh. The harder you thrust, the more painful this can be for her. Sometimes your lady may request harder thrusts. If so, then by all means, give her what she wants. Just be sure she is ready, willing, and able to accept your hard thrusting before you attempt it. If your lady asks for it hard and nasty, here is a terrific tip to help you give her hard, deep thrusting:
Headboard Leverage Technique:
Sometimes, your lady might want good, hard, deep, vigorous thrusting penetration. Here’s a technique to help you do this a little easier. Lie down on the bed in the missionary position, but turn 180 degrees so your feet are facing the head of the bed. Scoot down to where your feet are right up against the headboard. Using the headboard with your feet will give you the extra leverage you need for some forceful thrusting from the missionary position. Be sure to keep your lady relaxed. Don’t let her get into a tensed body mode.
Squishing Her:
Be careful not to put too much of your weight on her. Men are generally larger than women are and this can be painful for her. If she is spending too much time and energy thinking about being able to breathe, she isn’t concentrating on her pleasure – or yours.
Barking Directions:
Unless you are role-playing, don’t bark out instructions like a drill sergeant. Speak to her in a soft, gentle, loving voice or your little soldier’s sex life may be missing in action for a few days.
Talking Dirty:
Many women like it when you talk dirty to each other in bed. Others don’t. Don’t make the mistake of doing so without knowing if your lady likes it, first. Your best bet is to ask her.
Spanking Her:
During your sexual activity, don’t spank your lady without her permission. There will be a lot of women that will really enjoy that. There are a lot of others that really won’t. Don’t do it to your lady until you find out what she thinks about the idea. You could catch her completely off guard and upset her. She might even smack you back – and not in a good way!
Attempting Anal Sex And Pretending It Was An Accident:
If you have trouble finding the right hole, one lady suggested purchasing a GPS system or taping a map to your headboard. If you want to try anal sex, you have to ask her first. Attempting this without asking first and then pretending it was an accident is not acceptable. If you are truly unsure of what you are doing, then brush up on basic female anatomy before you do anything else.
Stopping For A Break In The Middle Of The Action:
During oral sex, if you can tell that she’s getting close to orgasm, don’t stop for anything – not even if your tongue feels like it will fall off. If you do stop, even for a minute, you will likely have to start all over again. Most women can’t pick up where they left off. Here are three tips for you. The first is for when your tongue becomes tired in the middle of the action. The second two are tongue strengthening exercises to build more tongue stamina.
Tired Tongue Tip:
If your tongue gets tired while pleasuring her, just curl it up against the outside of your upper lip. Now, you can still pleasure her with the exposed backside of your tongue while your tongue rests and still not break the sensation of softness and heat that she is enjoying. By the time you need to do this, there should be enough lubrication from her to avoid any dryness.
Tung-Fu Technique:
This is an ancient Chinese Taoist secret exercise to strengthen the tongue for oral sex. Hang an orange on a string. Use martial arts on it with your tongue. Jab it. Move it from side to side. Lift it up. After a few weeks, graduate to a grapefruit.
Lifesaver Tongue Stamina Tip:
This is a great exercise to gain tongue endurance for oral sex. Hold a Lifesaver at the front of your mouth in the upright position, either between your lips and gum or just inside your teeth. Now, using tiny tongue motions, dissolve the lifesaver from the inside out. Like great oral sex, this takes time, patience, and a strong, nimble tongue.
Not Caring Whether Or Not She Cums:
This is the best way to ensure she’ll never make love with you, again. Guys that cum and then roll over and go to sleep without finishing off their ladies will forever wonder why they can’t keep a good lady.
CUMMING TOO SOON.
If you are prone to premature ejaculations, then be sure to have a back up plan in mind to finish your lady off. It is not ok to have an orgasm yourself and then give up on the lovemaking. You should finish what you start.
Not Cumming Soon Enough:
Many men may think that thrusting away for an hour without Cumming is the mark of a sex god and is every woman’s dream for their man. Well, most women aren’t looking for a marathon man of such proportions. Most women get raw and numb after awhile and are ready for it to end. So, don’t cum too early, but don’t take too long, either.
Asking Us If We’ve Cun Yet!
“When a guy asks whether I’ve come yet, it kills any momentum I might have had. I hate that.” Guys, it’s great that you are concerned with your ladies pleasure, but if you ask her about her orgasm in the middle of the act, it can not only be an added pressure for your lady, it can also take her even further away from orgasm. Afterwards, if you ask her and she did cum, you might feel foolish for not recognizing the fact that she did. If you ask and she didn’t cum, you might feel foolish that you didn’t give her an orgasm. Either way, it’s probably not a good idea to ask. Some women said they wouldn’t mind, though, as long as they were asked afterwards. Ask your lady about her thoughts on the situation.
Asking Me If It Was Good:
“It’s always good, but if the guy asks me, then my impression of him drops a few points because if he was really paying attention, he would have known it was good.”
Condom Disposal:
Condom disposal is the man’s responsibility. Don’t leave it behind for her to clean up. Not only is this thoughtless, it also may make her wonder if you’ll expect her to clean up after you all the time in other areas of your life.
Not Snuggling After Sex:
Most women really like to snuggle after making love. This is a terrific time to make the emotional connection that most women (and a lot of men, too) need. A good rule of thumb that I really like is to always let your lady fall asleep first. This serves several purposes:
She can never accuse you of rolling over and falling asleep right after sex.
It prevents you from keeping her awake with your snoring.
You may find it really relaxing and reflective to just hold your lady for awhile as she sleeps. Look at her, think about what she means to you, and think about how much you love her.
Rushing To The Shower Immediately After Sex:
“Right after sex, he rushes to the shower. That makes me feel like I’m dirty.” Guys, many women have said that they feel dirty when you get up immediately after a lovemaking session and head right for the shower. Try not taking a shower immediately afterwards. A lot of people even sleep that way until morning. If you must run for the shower, make sure she doesn’t think you are running away from her. Give her a big kiss and tell her she made you so hot you have to jump in the shower real quick to cool off. Better yet, why not invite her along.
Getting Dressed Or Leaving Immediately After Sex:
This sends the message that you got what you wanted and now you are leaving. This is not a good message to send if you would like a repeat performance in the future. Spend some time with her and don’t leave immediately afterwards in most circumstances.
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